I'm disliked for being an optimist

Exactly. Shit happens in life regardless. One of the best things I ever had to learn for survival was that how you deal with things REALLY DOES make it better. It happens, get over it- get yourself back up and brighter days will come. I wasn't born an optimistic, it's been something I really had to learn by trial and error and yeah, as was previously discussed, seeing and dealing with life that way is really a sign of optimism and strength.

People who say they're your friends and you've been a real friend to them for years yet when they have a fucking booboo that can't be kissed .... well, whaa whaa, let me cry with you a min., fine but then when said person just wants to dwell in drama, bullshit and hopelessness, well... that's not how I roll. And honestly if said person really cared about me like I believed for years, why would said person wanna make me more unhappy right now? Shouldn't he wanna be happy for my happiness (and yes, I know this is confusing, I've been very happy and unhappy lately)..... It's just really selfish and shady to be honest and I don't know how long I can continue being this person's friend after this now.... not because I hate this person but because he can't seem to come to a level that is healthy and I'm looking for healthy things in my life.