I'm in love with my best friend.

It appears you're missing the point I was getting at.

 

Heh, who's been watching 'When Harry Met Sally' a little too frequently?

Nah, I half get what you mean. I am a tiny bit more restricted with better looking girl friends rather than uglier ones. Not saying I can't be friends with them, but the friendship is naturally different.

If people honestly believe if they were to start hanging with Megan Fox and Susan Boyle, they would act completely the same with both, you are liars

Not trying to offend anyone who is a little less attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder after all.

 

In my experience, "upping" best friends to relationship status doesn't always blow over to well, lol. But I'm still "best friends" with this girl I used to consider myself in love with, those feelings disappeared. Perhaps you can just learn to respect the friendship, having a close friend of the opposite sex can be awesome.

 

well swooosh everything has changed since this thread... she's kind of a bitch and a slut. everytime i was with her she would get trashed and like hook up with like, everyone there besides me (she knew how i felt about her too). she also framed my bestfriend for stealing her friends ipod and told her mom that he stole my other friends ipod and gave it back. eventually she knew i liked her a lot and tried to make her bitch so i just don't really talk to her anymore.

 

Ahhhh the 'friend-zone' well goodluck with that. I'd say you just appreciate who she is and you're confortable with her and not to jeoprodize that. There will be others.

 

^^ relevant advice fail

it appears that this guy missed his own point that he was getting at...

 

Yeah, rofl, girls are girls dude. Better yet, people are just people, she just doesn't like you. The same girl I was talking about seemed like she used to hook up with a lot of people, it was almost like she gave everyone a run except me. Just gotta get past people like that, jealousy is a shitty emotion to work with. But yeah maybe that iPod thing showed you how worth it she is (personality wise), lol.

 

I'm in a situation kind of like yours.

The guy i was dating is a friend and we broke up because he needed time and we moved things too quickly. It almost ruined our friendship...

You need to take things slow.. Give her space...
Don't annoy her about it or do anything that would push her away...
If she doesn't ever feel the same way about you then find someone else... Stay single..
You are young. Date and have fun.. Experiment and explore. You have plenty of time for love, don't rush into it.