How can you say that love without possesion lacks value? Havent you ever heard the "if you love it set it free" line? My wife knows she is free to love, fuck, and be with whoever she chooses, but the fact that she stays with me proves her love, and vice versa.
Uhhh thanks for the compliment... but that's only part of the story , I AM a big (large) , fucking (related to earlier comments about test levels) meathead (well i been called worse ya kno) - but I'm also a chem engineer , an actuary , speak a couple of languages and live in Germany. Hey I useta hug my gramps too - you're right - a hug can be totally asexual same for a kiss ... but that isnt how this one played out not was it so WTF?
Where exactly did i STATE that ? Have your eyes failed you already ? Chill pill you need to take I think.
Not me man , Arthur Schopenhauer - Freud's philosophical predecesseor. I know that "love/freedom" line but to me that is another version of a prison - I'm totally free with my chic - I can express my thoughts and fears openly and honestly with her - and moreover if she loves me , she'll fear hurting me and I can do likewise. Look up ol Arthur sometime , interesting guy with much to say.
well, i guess i lucked out in the hubby department, he's more of the opinion if i talk to or hug some guy it's NOT A BIG DEAL - cuz he knows who's bed i'm getting into and he's the big fucking meathead tattooed biker-lookin type of guy to look at him, with absolutely no low testosterone issues (yeah for me!). he also hugs people socially, not sexually, a lot. parnell, it's not that i fear hurting him that keeps me out of other guys beds. what keeps me faithful is my love and trust and total wanting of just him. he loves and trusts and totally wants just me. we are not together because we fear hurting each other if we stray, we are together because we belong together. hahahahaa - we went to a party on a ranch, he put a glowstick on me so he could find me in the dark cuz (gasp!) i actually wander off on occasion and TALK to people!! but to be honest, there's not many guys that hit on me once they know who i'm married to. yellowbelly, keep your head up - you said already that ya'll have a great relationship out of bed, and that's what will keep you together till yer old & grey. you're a very pretty girl, a devoted mom and a tolerant wife - just stick it out, things will change. they always do. try some full body massage on yer tired workin man.
LMAO , I comment on one lady's relationship and suddenly I'm like Dr. Ruth ??? WTF ? I've been lookin round for some ol photos I had of myself on the board so you can all put a face to the object of your disgust and derision. Recently a 'Husband superstore' opened where women could go to choose a husband from among many men. It was laid out on five floors, with men increasing in positive attributes as you ascend. The only rule was, once you've opened the door to any floor you HAD to choose a husband from that floor, you couldn't go back down except to leave, never to return. A couple of girlfriends went to the store to find some husbands... First floor The door had a sign saying 'These men have jobs and are good lovers'. The women read the sign and said 'well that's nice, but I wonder what's further up'. So they went up to the next floor. Second floor The sign read 'These men have high paying jobs, are good lovers and are very good looking. 'Hmmm' said the ladies 'but I wonder what's further up?' Third floor This sign read 'These men have high paying jobs are fantastic lovers, are extremely good looking and love housework'. 'Wow' said the women 'that's very tempting, but let's try just one more floor'. Fourth floor The sign read 'These men have high paying jobs are fantastic lovers, are extremely good looking, love housework, and adore children'. 'Oh mercy me' said the women 'that's seems like the perfect man, but there's one more floor, just think what must await us there!' So off they went to the final floor. Fifth floor The sign read 'This floor is empty and exists only to prove that women are fucking impossible to please. The exit is to your left, we hope you fall down the stairs.'
nah, yer not Dr. Ruth - she's one of a kind and you haven't earned my disgust and derision - yet. funny joke!!! thanks man...