I'm so paranoid about my breasts

I am 28 years old, 29 in March and I got a mama belly and no one has complained about it to my knowledge. Work that mama body! I look at my belly and my stretch marks as battle scars and happy memories!

 

You're way over-thinking this, because of your own self-consciousness. But this really isn't 'actionable'. It will be what it will be.

Here are the possiblities.

1) He doesn't care/likes them. You've stressed over nothing. A win.
2) He minds, a bit, but he's genuine, and he's in to you, so it's no big deal. It's right in there with how loud you chew and the fact that you snore, or something equally trivial in a relationship. It's something that over time, becomes one of the things he loves about you, and matters not at all. You've stressed over nothing. A win.
3) He's in the 1% of the guys that have no class who can also get past your filters to the point that you'd be thinking of sleeping with them. He's a jerk, and hurts you. You find out WAY earlier than you would have anyway (he's a jerk regardless of what you look like), and the short term hurt is much better than finding out he's this level of asshole further down the road. You don't want to be around him long term anyway. This could be considered a win.
4) You stress out on it so much you don't invite him over. A guaranteed loss. The sports analogy, 100% of the shots you don't take don't go in.

In all of these, you stress for no reason. You shouldn't change what you do under any of these, except to minimize your stress, invite the guy over, and put your fears behind you one way or the other.

There's my 1/50th of a dollar.

 

Exactly. I mean, this is what happens when sex is about 'inviting someone over', instead of being about love. Oops-I said the L word. Yes I did. If a guy loves you, is committed to be with you no matter what, then he accepts whatever there is about you and finds beauty in it, especially things that are just superficial and that you can't change anyway. I'm not talking about character faults or things like that, I'm just talking about the size of your boobs or whether your tummy's flat-superficial crap like that.

If the sex is superficial, meaning that it doesn't involve love and commitment, then people start stressing over external things like that.

My wife's had 3 kids, and her body is in great shape after all of them-maybe not the same shape it was in before-she has a few mild stretch marks, her boobs have gone from being pretty good sized to pretty damned big to pretty damned small (don't ask me why) but in all those stages I thought she was beautiful because I love her, not her boob size or how her tummy's doing this week. If all there is to your relationship is worrying about whether he's going to 'come around' some more, all I can say is, you don't have much to look forward to anyway.

 

be your beautiful self.

 

fake boobs are like a dildo . fake . the real boobs are the woman in 30-40 . if he doesnt like it , then he will understand when he will get older .

 

I think it will be ok. People worry too much about their appearance to just loosen up and have fun.