In secret or open about it?

Our take on this: We are a senior married couple and we are very open regarding masturbation. We hide nothing from each other. My wife uses a small finger tip vibrator often to pleasure herself and I will wank one out whenever. We usually enjoy watching each other.

 

sounds exactly what we do,lol

 

My first wife had exactly zero interest in masturbation.
My 2nd wife, on the other hand, likes it a lot.
We mutual masturbate a couple times a month. And she also likes to assist me about once a week. And then we have sex once or twice a week on top of that.
Having a wife that enjoys me masturbating, assisting and watching is fucking awesome. It opens a whole new playbook.

 

I couldn’t agree more. My wife is an open book about her sexual self. Masturbation for her is just as normal as a walk in the park. She is intrigued by the male anatomy and she loves to watch me as well. All good in our house.

 

I keep it to myself unless I know it’s my wife. She is fine with it and we both get off thinking about the other masterbating.

 

I was open about it with my friends, I had a couple friends I mastubated with growing up. Wasn't ever open about it with my family, but they knew I did..

 

Of course young I was closed about it though I started quite young. But now I'm open about it with close friends. You would be amazed how many people masturbate even married! With edging I like to share the health benefits. Open about edging with my wife.

 

My mate walked in on me the other day, and was quite flabbergasted. I don't know why; she wants me to masturbate as our marriage is now celibate. She didn't understand why she was so shocked, either; not like she's never seen me jack off before.
I didn't try to cover up or stop stroking; why would I?

 

I empathize with your position. I keep my special time private but I like the thrill of sharing anonymously on forums or hotel rooms where no one will know, who I am, if I am a touch louder or expressive with my solo sex.

 

The only one who would interrupt me is and I would simply just tell her the truth. Then maybe she would help.

 

Always private now, but when younger my ex would masturbate me most mornings before work, but now in my 70s and single I masturbate regularly in private, but was recently caught, living with a relative temporally while house is being repaired and lying on bed completely naked , my female relative brought me a cup of coffee and caught me masturbating, I had nothing to pull over me to hide my embarrassment and she just said I didn't think men of your age did that anymore, then said carry on I'm not going till you finish, although very embarrassed but also very aroused I continued till I ejaculated, she just wow and walked out, I secretly wish it would happen again but unfortunately it hasn't,

 

Being watched raises the excitement level as you mention. Good story. She seems to have enjoyed it.

 

Still living at home in college. One night late after work I was going to town on my bed and in walks mom. I tried to cover up. She stammered that she wanted to make sure I was home.....and then left. I couldn’t resume.
Next morning dad said mom told him what she saw. I was embarrassed. He said not to worry about it...”we all do it! Just lock the door next time!”

Now days I wait until wife is out and I have the house to myself.....better yet when she’s out of town. Wife really frowns on masturbation....why would she care. She doesn’t masturbate ever, or want sex now for a few years.

 

Yes I think she did enjoy seeing me cum, her eyes where glaring and her mouth open with surprise, I was very embarrassed but it passed and I became very aroused and excited, I cant believe I ejaculated with her watching me, I dream of her catching me again, I was thinking of asking her if she would like to catch me again when she bring me morning coffee but I don't know if I should, what do you think, she's 30 and I'm 74,

 

Just be honest and state you apologize and let her know it excited you strangely and see what she says.

 

If she responds positively just explain that age is not a factor in sexual enjoyment. I find being watched is incredibly exciting.