Is it just me or does anyone else find anal overrated?

Wow, the anal myth is being exposed!

I never did it with a woman because quite frankly there was a couple better places to put my cock. My wife of two decades was not into it, and that suited me fine.

However, when I was younger and doing many guys in New Orleans, there were several bottoms who really enjoyed the anal so I was glad to accommodate them. It was enjoyable to me, just like pussy only tighter and the guy really squeezed my cock when he got off.

And, there was once where I had shit behind the head of my cock. Kinda unpleasant experience. (this was in the '70s everyone barebacked then)

I only bottomed once and it hurt and was unpleasant. Never ventured there again.

 

Different strokes for different folks. I personally feel blow jobs are overrated. I wanted to try it so bad before I had sex the first time, and when I tried it I realized that I really do not like that much. It's not that it was bad, I just did not see what all the hooplah was about. I have tried bj's with several different women, and I can't say that I really enjoyed it that much at all, I find anal much more satisfying than bj's.

BUT there are some guys who go ape shit over bj's. My home boy David likes bj's more than vaginal.

I prefered vaginal and anal over blow jobs any day.

 

for me anal is not over rated.. we both love to give and receive.. its very primal yet, it requires lots of trust.

 

In my experience, Anal Sex is certainly not as straightforward as the videos might have you believe, where every Anal penetration looks just as straightforward as a Vaginal penetration. It isn't - especially in situations with a generous girth.

However, on the occasion when penetration is achieved it can certainly have it's rewards, with the Rectal Ring being far tighter than that of the Vaginal Wall.

Although I'm Bi, my preference does lead towards that of being Straight, and whenever I'm with a fewmale partner I do generally prefer Vaginal sex, for the most part, but for a brief part of the sexual session, it is nice to get to experience a few Anal thrusts also.

Plus, I've found that achieving Anal Penetration is easier with a female that it is with a male. Am I alone in this experience, or is there a biological explanation for this phenomenon?

 

I would have to agree with the fact that anal penetration is not as straight forward as vaginal penetration. It takes A LOT more time and preperation than vaginal, but I believe that it can be worth it. Like it has been said above, the anus is noticably tighter than the vagina.

I am not sure if there is an anatomical reason why women could take more girth anally than men, my guess would be it's in the hips. I am not bi-sexual, so I am not speaking from experience, but that would be my best guess, either that, or women are able to relax easier than men, which is also a possibility.

 

Hahaha, " butt secks " thats funny ..

Dont think anal is particurly over rated, now fake titties are over rated ...

 

Nah, the idea of ass-fucking a chick is an instant turn-off for me lol. I don't know why.

 

A good friend of mine said he had a girlfriend who only wanted anal sex and after a while he got tired of it, just wanted to fuck some good old pussy again. That's as close to calling it overrated as I've heard. Years later he still has fond memories of his anal gal and wishes he could get some occasionally.

For me I would say anal isn't any more overrated than regular sex and I don't really recall seeing it "rated" as something amazing either, just something not all women are into and hence more a "treat" than the be-all and end-all of sex.

For comparison I have friends who rave about blow-job just as much and if as few women were giving blow-jobs as indulged in anal then I reckon a lot of men would rave about blow-jobs too and beg their women to suck them - but many (like me) would still say, nah blow-jobs are overrated.

In my experience anal, vaginal, oral (or whatever you're into) can all be fantastic, okay, or just plain awful - its all about the partner, the moment and some good old fashioned sex-magic.

YMMV.

Live long and fornicate but don't forget to lubricate.

 

Physically it can't be argued that it's just the stimulation of the nerves in the penis designed by nature to release a measured amount of semen in order to perpetuate the species.

With fact in mind, there should be absolutely no difference between plain Masturbation (be it by one's self or a partner), Oral, Vaginal, or Anal. The neural stimulation is all the same, leading to the same response - the orgasm & ensuing release of semen.

However, despite this plain & simple fact, nobody can deny that there are different pleasures to be gained from various sexual activities, which just goes to prove how little of the enjoyment received from having sex is from the physical side of things.

If your inclinations are toward Anal Sex, then you will receive most pleasure from Anal Sex. If they are towardsw Vaginal Sex, then you will receive most pleasure from Vaginal Sex, etc.

However, the biggest difficulty of all is to be matched with a partner whose preferred sexual inclinations are compatible with yours. Otherwise there simply have to be some concessions made one way or the other - or both - or else the only other solution is to move on & find a partner whose inclinations DO match with your own.

 

I agree with what just about everbody has said, sexual preference is all different. I know guys who tried anal and hated it, and that's fine, at least they tried it and now they know it's not for them.

To be honest, I would not like it either if I was with a woman that wanted anal exclusivly. I love vaginal sex, but I also love anal, I would not want to give up either one for the other, to me they go together like ketchup and mustard.

I wind up doing anal quite frequently with my wife because she orgasms easiest from anal/clitoral stimulation, I don't know why but vaginal/clitoral stimulation just doesnot do it for her, she loves the way it feels, but it's just not enough to push her to orgasm.

I can be doing her vaginally for like 20 minutes, and then when I put it in her ass, 2 minutes later she is cumming like there is no tomorrow. She likes me to do vaginal before anal, because it gets her worked up, but for orgasm, she needs some anal stimulation.

 

i had similar experience with 2 my ex-girls ..they enjoy vaginal sex al lot..but for orgasm ..it was possible only with anal sex..and as you said: i can be doingher vaginally for 20-30 minutes..they usedt o get much pleasure..but no orgasm !! but after 2-3 minutes of anal sex; they get strong ..shaking orgasms..and one of them she got several anal orgasms !!

 

My girl is not really multi-orgasmic from my experience, but maybe I am just not hitting the right buttons, who knows, but I continue to figure out new ways to bring her more pleasure.

Lots of people do not believe that anal can be that satisfying for women, but for some women it is. Like we have both had experience with, it's not that they don't get pleasure from vaginal, but that it's just not enough to push them over the edge to orgasm, I don't know why! I'm not complaining, it's just another excuse to get some more of that ass.

I think it's so hot, while we're having sex, and my wife is begging me to fuck her in the ass. I think guys who think anal is overrated, were not with a woman who actually enjoyed and or craved anal stimulation. If that's not the case, maybe it's just not their thing.

 

I think so.
Maybe anal can be satisfying for some women, but for my wife, she does not like this way.