Is it ok to cheat on you?

If my current boyfriend, or any boyfriend I may have in the future, cheated on me I would leave them immediately. I could never forgive them. Or at least that is the way that I think I would react. I can never truly know until it happens to me.

 

I have forgiven it in the past, but if it ever happens again I think restraints will be made on the relationship for a while if they wish for a 2nd chance.

 

he is one of the people that i suspect is slightly autistic.

 

uhm no it's not okay to even flirt on me. I am not jealous it is just a respectability issue.

 

.........if that's the case, I'm a dick and I apologize.

 

I think this is a perfect statement for me.

This is why I have not posted my boobs in the threads. It's a respectable issue for me. I respect my husband. I honor him. What is mine is his and his only. This is how I feel.

I am not saying what anyone else does or has done is wrong. That is their business. I will and have even cheered for these people. I just feel differently when it comes to me.

Where's Jugg's respect signature?

 

I think people have different reactions in different situations. When I was 16 I cheated on my boyfriend. I had boyfriends who cheated on me. Yes, it hurt, but we all moved on.
I am a lot different now. I am married, not something that I take lightly.
We have children. I wouldn't want my sons to see me stand there and take being cheated on. They would get the idea that it's something ok to do to your wife.
Personally I would feel too betrayed. I would leave.

 

I have been cheated on and I dont tolerate it, I end it and move on...
I have never cheated on anyone and would never...I dont understand that if someone cheats on me, why did they even start a relationship with me to begin with..But I dont try at the relationship again, I just move on with my life...

 

i had a dream the night before last. in the dream i caught my husband cheating on me with some girl in a storage shed HAHA on my birthday at that. in the dream i didnt care I just went and made out with a good friend of mine and later me and my husband happily decided to get a divorce........ what the hell do you think that dream means?????? any ideas?????? ​

whats weird...me and my husband have been getting along this week...​

 

Hell no. It's happened to me recently and no it is never ok. I am getting divorced because of it. Never, ever, ever be a doormat. I wouldn't take that SOB back for all the gold in Africa.

 

Not at all. I don't know if I could ever forgive that. And if I did, things would be very different.

 

Wow, I'm surprised at all the people that have taken part in this. Thanks

 

your welcome

 

yes, you can cheat on me, as long as you don't give me an STD and expect to be forgiven for it.

 

Fidelity, to me, is not nessecarily as important or the same thing as loyalty.

 

The last guy I was with (for a very long time) slept with a girl once while we were on a little "break," which ended up only lasting about a week.... when we got back together, it felt different, so I asked him if he'd slept with anyone else, and he said, "Well, we didn't really sleep..." I go so upset that I freaked out and ran out of the house and drove home crying... I seriously haven't sobbed like that since I was like four years old. I was so mad that I actually threw up for almost a whole day. It was fucked up. It just broke my little heart to think of my sweet love with someone else... he seemed fine.

 

i think i could handle it though i'd be upset. i could handle her sleeping with another man, but i'd want to know about it before hand....as far as going behind my back...it depends on how i find out about it, and how much she lies.

 

Open relationships are king of strange to me. I guess you have to be a special kind of person. I'll let you in on a little secret; I'd be scared if my guy cheated on me. I want a man that loves me and if he's cheating than I know it's not me that he wants. I'm not in a position to brag but I can tell you this for a fact. If someone is my man and he's cheating than it's because he's not happy with me. I'm very sure that I could satisfy the right man.

 

is it ok to lie to me and betray my trust?

do i look like the goverment to you?

its never ok to break a promise, now if you ask if it was ok for your lover to sleep with someone else that would be a diferent story altogether. i lived with a girl for three years who was bisexual and would sleep with woman, that didnt bother me, well not much, (I was a little pissed that she wouldn't even let me watch but what can ya do) but thats what she needed and it was something i couldnt give her, and she was honest about it so i couldnt fault her for it.