Is it wrong?

it's funny because you can blab about something like that on here, but not to my face.
So you were paranoid that i was out cheating with an ex?
stellaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar.

 

oh no....

 

Woooah, I never said that..

I said that I know how it feels to be sitting home alone, while your partner is out having fun without you. I never suspected you of cheating. Ever.

 

I have to agree with IronGoth on this one, and in my experience men don't change just because you made a wish, he'll keep using you until you stop letting him

 

Deep down yes Annoyed-but I have been around enough to know "What we fear-WE create"
The MORE you come from FEAR...The MORE you put ENERGY INTO it...The more he will do it!
In any relationship you can come from LOVE OR FEAR....from what I have read about this relationship it sounds like you BOTH come from FEAR. Also-getting drunk just makes most people even more in fear.
Also-from your reactions he might be using this to make you Love him more which is even worse.

In my own situations like this-my RESPONSE would be to go out too.
It's a two way street!

I know it's hard...but it sounds like you are REACTING to his stuff and NOT RESPONDING.

Spend your time being you! That's a very special Woman.

Big Hugs The Wiz

 

I feel that once you have established trust with a person, you should feel comfortable and confident in them, until you are proven wrong.

If you are caring for the person and being honest and faithful with them, you should have no worries. If your partner decides to cheat, karma will get them in the end--I've seen it too many times.