is my bestfriend bi

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by scub, Mar 20, 2008.

  1. 87s

    87s Member

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    he seems like a silly/fun guy. just tell him you're bi already. if he likes you back in that way, he'll let you know. it's better to leave out the part where you like him as that could make it uncomfortable for him if he isn't bi. i mean, you'll still be friends but things won't be the same if you tell him you like him.
     
  2. Joey*

    Joey* Freaky Supportr Dude

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    Good Suggestion 87s,
    Cool,.
     
  3. nakedtreehugger

    nakedtreehugger craaaaaazy

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    sounds like there's some chemistry going on, but everything, including the friendship, could get really messy and/or go south really quickly if someone doesn't just up and ask someone a question. or fess up.

    sounds like you're both bi and you both like each other. but there's only one way to know. say something. tell him you're bi, but don't put the pressure on him by asking if he is too, or if he fancies you. just say you like guys and girls, and you just wanted to get that off your chest so it's not a wierd thing between you two.

    if the playfulness stops, he's probably not bi, or he's freaked out, trying to figure out what HE wants. communications is always your best bet...

    best of luck, and hope all works out well for you!
     
  4. crikeycharlie

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    no he wasnt testing me thats just who he is, always flirting with anything that moves, just more so with me.
    you should do what the others are saying and just say you like girls and guys but leave out the part that you like him for the time being...do it already man lol!
     
  5. infinito

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    Yeah dude, back and forth. If he's touching you, touch him back. Up the ante and if he ups it, up it again and you'll see how far he's willing to go.
     
  6. scub

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    well, obviously i'm attracted to him and sure i would love to have a relationship but for now i'm gonna wait a few weeks because i just discovered one of my other friends is bi also and i'll be meeting up with him this weekend so i'll wait until i meet with this dude before i tell my bestfriend.
     
  7. Joey*

    Joey* Freaky Supportr Dude

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    Rather strange turn of events dude.Life is full of surprises.
    Definetely keep us updated,.this is getting intresting!:)
    Your weekend could be fun so see what happens and be open minded.
    If somethings gonna happen (and you want it to)don't let indecision take it away.Good luck,have fun.We wanna hear all about it.lol
    Keep cool :rockon:,
    Joey*
    May Peace Reign
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  8. harrynuts_69

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    well I have had almost the same senerio, i had a friend that we talked about girls all the time, we would watch hours upon hours of porn together. So one day I just got realy horny when watching porn and started rubbing my cock through my pants and he started to. I asked him hey do you mind if i rub one off in your bathroom and he said just do it on the couch. so i started then he pulled out what looked like a third leg and began to do the same. he was about 10 years older than me and never had a girlfriend. Then without saying anything I just put his cock in my mouth, and always loved it. But if he is straight just watch porn and rub your cock if he does not like it he will ask you what are you doing. Just tell him you are horny and could not help it.

    Or you can wait until he is sleeping and put his cock in your mouth, no straight guy will make you stop. everybody loves bj's.
     
  9. enjoylifeasmuchasyou

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    Well, that probably is the surest way to end a friendship, if you have bad luck! But I have another suggestion: when he is touching your nipples, you could be like "Oh yeah go on, it makes me sóóó horny" or something, in a funny way. Then see how he reacts. You can always tell him it was meant like a joke, a funny reaction. IMHO you should tease him a bit, see what he does. Keep us posted, it's really getting interesting!
     
  10. 31Idiocracy

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    anything yet?
     
  11. Number6

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    This is not a good idea. When I was in the Army a fellow got thrown in jail for sexual assault doing this. Besides, this is a good way to get your ass kicked.
     

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