is my girlfriend a s*lut?

You can dress it up with fancy words. You're just another slut.

 

I don't understand what the problem with sluts is. Especially ones who are safe and honest with their partners. Some girls like to fuck.... just like some guys. I've had casual sex and I don't see how it is a problem unless I fuck around on someone I have mutually decided to be monogamous with.

Why is someones number of sex partners a concern, especially if they have a clean bill of health??

What the fuck does "sexually overused" mean anyways?? Practice makes perfect, the more you fuck the better you get at it. I am pretty amused by the comments in this thread.

 

Well said.

 

OMFG she's had 3 sex partners per year since she's been sexually active! Call the slut police, call the psychologists ! I've seen some insecure blokes before in my day but this thread makes them all look like their standing still.

 

yeah, that doesn't come off as cocky..

 

sluts are cool..

 

Is this supposed to be an April Fools prank? She's nowhere close to deserving the title "slut." No woman short of a stripper deserves that.

What generation are you guys from? Because for women in their 20s nowadays 3.5 partners/year, if you're including any one-nighters, for someone who's never had a serious relationship is not that much at all. As for getting pregnant accidentally, once - it could happen to anyone. Twice, or she's got some STD, and it becomes a problem, but that still wouldn't qualify her as a slut.

And you. You're the worst of the bunch. "We guys that have a lot of experience...sexually she is now overused" WHAT THE FUCK man? You reek of hypocrisy. "These kinds of girls are not good for serious relationships...she is unstable." YOU, sir, sound like the unstable one. Writing someone off as not having the right to a happy relationship (and therefore the right to be a human being) makes you a sadist pig.

And I thought HF was an accepting place.

 

Funny reading this thread not long after I found out my gf's number of sex partners (I know I've already given my 2 cents and Donkey guy sorry if I was harsh on you) and I've come to a realization. If I'm being honest her number did bother me a bit and not just because she lied about it initially but me being bothered by it is 100% my issue and doesen't reflect back on her at all. My girlfriend when I'm with her shows me nothng but love and resect and I don't suspect for a second that she is 'unstable' or 'sexually overused' just because she has had some one night stands way back when.

 

Why is she a slut cause she gets hers? Why cause she's a girl she can't enjoy some good times and damn 30 guys ain't all that shit if u put ur mind to it u can do 30 guys in like less than a month. Shit don't judge ask her how it was. U like this girl then date this girl don't call her a slut it's an ugly word

 

I Bet You Have Too, You Cheap Little Slut...



Cheers Glen.

 

Oh honey I'm not at all cheap

 

As long as she's clean and can behave herself, with no histrionic or similar behaviors, who gives a fuck? She knows how to have fun.

What's wrong with blacks or mexcians? What's wrong with anal?

She's a slut and you're a prude, guess it evens out.

 

^^I don't think he's a prude, I think he's a male chauvinist.

 

^^ I think he just needs to grow up

 

LOL. I'm an American. You just described 90% of the American girls I have ever known, personally. So yeah, I guess it's cultural. In America, 90% of women vie and pine for 5% of the men (I'm pulling these percentages straight from my ass, in case your wondering). 10% of women settle for the least offensive of the 95% of less desirable men, and the 85% of the remaining men either live happily gay or have short, brutish, sad and largely barren and meaningless heterosexual lives subsisting on pornography, strippers, prostitutes and unrequited love/stalkery and obsessive/joyless masturbation.

 

i don't lie woman . this is free speech forum .
i write my opinion . this guy is not stupid to follow my opinion .
He ask for our and my opinion , i write it .
14 years active sex and 22 with 30 male sex . she is not stable .
i mean with a woman 28 years old with 60 ex partners . she wants to make a serious relationship with a nice guy with more less partners ! HELL no .
for these kind of women would be a nice 6 year adventure , just to have kids and then boom they leave . it is in their blood to have adventure . to suck whatever the other side can offer and they leave for next ''doze''.

 

Well I don't even understand a lot of what you just said, but I'll have a go.

I never accused you of lying. You have a right to your own opinion, as do I. My opinion is that your opinion makes you a shithead.

14 is young to lose your virginity, I'll give you that. But 30 guys in 8 years? Explain to me how that makes her unstable. And for that matter, how many girls have you been with? If your rate is more than 4/year of sexual activity (which I'm assuming it's somewhere close to there, as you said you've had lots of experience), then yes, that makes you a hypocrite. Unless you're of the opinion that women should be held to different standards than men, then you're a male chauvinist.

Where did you get the 60 from? That's pure rhetoric coming straight out of your ass. Are you saying that a woman is only allotted a certain amount of sex per lifetime, and that beyond that she's undeserving of a happy relationship? That's what it sounds like to me. At least she's honest about her past, and that makes her more trustworthy, and a better potential girlfriend.

And you do realize it takes two people to make a baby, right? As irresponsible as the woman may be, the man is just as culpable. And I'm sure there are more examples out there of the father running away when there's a kid involved than the mother. Just saying.

 

up she is totally a slut send me here # lol jk

anyway if you love her should it matter no.

 

I've met strippers that act like Mother Theresa, when it comes to their sex life. It's not fair for you to say that.