Is sex a big deal?

i choose drugs over sex all the time--yeah i regret it sometimes though-

 

I once heard it said: "sex is like air; it's really no big deal unless you're not getting any."

 

the last two relationships i was in the sex was either non-existent or terrible
i cannot be in a relationship without sex

if i was liking a guy or in fact in a relationship with a guy and he had sex with someone else it would be a big deal, it's not just a bit of fun then
sex is important, relationships are important, as humans we need to connect with other people on those levels

sex can sometimes be only for fun, one night stands or sexy buddies

i wouldn't care if a sex buddy or one night stand had sex with another person but if i was investing myself into someone i would not want them fornicating with someone else and not me

 

Hey

I am new to the forum and thought this was a great question for my first post.

For me sex was a bigger deal when i was in my teens when it was a case of getting laid every weekend when going out clubbing.

Now having been in a relationship for 4 years i feel the sex has become even more fun as although it is with the same woman, because we know each other so well we can try all sorts of new things and take the fun to a different level!

 

The bigger deal being the competition with my mates!

 

Is the Pope Catholic?

 

It's only a big deal depending on who you are with

 

I don't follow. Being really into someone and having a casual relationship with someone does not sound synonymous.