i`m sorry you`re going thru this & i know exactly how you feel. it`s wearing me out. do you see them in places you go? that`s even more difficult. strangely quite soon after she showed up @ a place w/ him, knowing i`d be there. & did it one more time they came in seperately. that was kinda odd. but all the rest of the times, she`s alone or w/ someone besides him. maybe she`s trying to spare my feelings or something.
what i tend to do is if i see the least bit of a chance of reunification, i change my schedule around to fit it. it`s really hard to find someone else sometimes. & often i may blow chances for the next relationship by dwelling on the last. i think it can be harder for some men to find another. especially if they`re "picky". & isn`t it a good idea to be just a bit that way? i don`t like to settle on just anyone. even for just short-term.
yes,she is attractive if she is your lady then based solely on physical appearrances she is dating down a level,no disrespect almost all my girlfriends in life were dating down a level with me,some-two levels.........if she is reading this you must know that many here will be brutally dishonest..i fear for her feelings as the mean punchlines will soon be flying...peace