she said menstruate as in... have your first period... not masterbate. i didn't have my first bf until i was 17, lost my virginity right before i turned 18... it's not that big of a deal really, i mean, just focus on the things you got going right now... i was pretty picky, which is why i found it hard to get really into a boy until that age. perfectly normal to not be interested in anybody... there are few ppl who are never really interested in having a romantic relationship because other things are more important to them...
hey man, I'm 20 I've never had an official 'boyfriend' - there have been some short term things, but nothing major. so there are other people in your situation, so don't stress. And as for being normal - as people have said, there is no normal when it comes to relationships and stuff anyway. When the time and the person are right, it will happen.
....oh :blushes: emabarsing! here i am ranting and raving about my personal life just because I miss read a coment =P