It's ashamed how society has portrayed marriage, it's became a business move to some or maybe most. Woman use it as a way to get paid. For better or for worst should be, everything good until some shit happens or this isn't what I want. I havent met a women who's thought process was similar to mine about relationships. I thought I had one, found out she's kinda selfish.
Not all of us are that way. I'm very independent. I have worked hard to have a career. I want to enter marriage for love and commitment. I want someone with goals and similar interests. I don't want a dead beat or someone I have to 'mother'. I would want them to be a contribution - but not a business partner.