Isn't it a very bad luck to have been born a male?

I think that had a profound affect on you.
Hopefully chatting to us on HF will help improve your future. You can even chat to Candy without being ignored or getting beaten up.

 

I tried to talk to a girl in the class at university and she snaped at me in the class in front of the crowd. Later, her boyfriend found my facebook account and threatened to beat me up.

And if this snapping thing had happened outside of university, I would already have gotten beaten up by the men around.

 

Perhaps she got the impression that you were trying to chat her up, rather than just talking to her about your studies.

WHY.?????......... What did she tell him about what happened,??????

 

Trying to chat is trying to talk, is it not?

 

It depends on how you approached her and what you started asking her.
Talking about social matters to a girl until you get to know her will frighten her, particularly if you are known to speak to girls in that way.

When you start at your new college, confine conversations to the subject matter of the lecture until you get to know people and they accept you as a friend.
Then move on to subjects such as music, in the same way as you did when you sent me a message.
I have accepted you as a decent guy, you need to learn by that.

 

Same....

 

Protect from what? What am I doing? Just talking normal way....

Beating up the person who tries to talk people from opossite gender is a way of protecting?? I don't think so.... It is a way of violence...

 

Am I being ignored? Lol

 

I cannot wear it because I have something extra, which would make it difficult.

 

Big knickers then. Lol x
Sorry you know I like to make you laugh Grandy. X

 

It's not a new college, it is the same university that I didn't graduate from in 9 years.

Talking to someone from opposite sex itself is a problem anway. So let's leave it at that.


Had I been born a girl, everything would have been so different.

Once again I type this turkish saying which everybody knows in Turkey...

''If I had luck, I would have been a girl out of my mother''.

 

there are more likely places in this world where it might be bad luck to be born, whatever gender, species or physical form otherwise.
generally in this world where there are, it is humans who make it so.
and i would leave it at anyone of any sex. gender is an excuse and a lame one, not a biological imperative, that it is pretended to be.
its consequences, outside of the biological function of reproduction, are entirely in consequence of cultural constructs.

 

Because of their physical weakness, women are more prone to bullying by men on account of their superior physical strength.

Also in wars usually started by men, women and children are the worst victims due to inability to defend themselves. Helpless widows and orphans are also created as a consequence.

The two worlds wars which started in europe killed over 100 million people with women and children accounting for many casualties.

Then we have the likes of delusional characters like Marquis de Sade,who lacking wisdom and a proper understanding of what life and existence is all about, creating negative philosophies smacking of nihilism and perverted literature portraying all sorts of abuses to women and children.

Such foolish works of Sade also had their impact in inspiring a generation of infamous serial killers like Ian Brady and Myra Hindley in England who raped and killed many children.

So there are all sorts of issues facing women and children at this point of time, and it should be the aspiration of every heroic-gentleman to conquer the ice-mountain of vice and bring the summit under his feet.

 

I don't think so . I would never fit into Candy's knickers

 

Two guys walking home from work and one says "When I get home I'm gonna rip the wife's knickers off'
His mate says "what for"
He replies "because the elastic is hurting my leg "
Boom tish

 

Each gender has advantages in society. For example I once got my car towed parking in the wrong spot downtown. The tow company can set whatever rules they want to ransom your property back. I had to have $400 cash to get my car. 2 young women had their car towed from the same lot and were crying about not having the money. The company only took the money they claimed to have on them which was a few $20 bills.

Men here know how it would turn out if we cried to some bulky blue collar tow truck guy. They are not going to lower the price just think less of us. There is a stereotype that women need to be cared for by men. Their mistakes matter less and a real man will forgive them. Smart women can use this to their advantage and I think it contributes to the anti-feminist MGTOW views some men have. It's true that some women abuse men's kindness. For a long time a patriarchal society is built upon the idea that our women care for our kids and cook our meals and in exchange for that we men deal with the harsh realities of life.

But, I also see so many advantages being a man. I'm really tall and I guess scary if you don't know me so maybe that is why no one has ever touched me without my consent. No little slaps on the ass or comments about "smiling more". Basically, no Me Too sort of things have happened to me. Women are small and easy to dominate. I have been offered fair salaries for my job and I get the impression women don't get this as much. When I have dealt with salesmen I have seen the difference in how they speak to me vs my wife. I get more respect. Even when they assume I don't know their area of work as well as they do they don't try to manipulate and lie nearly as much as with women. A good example of this is a car salesmen.

I am not one of those males who gets mad when women speak on injustices. I would rather use my "privilege" or whatever you want to call it to make the world better for us all. But I am also a male who is willing to call out the extreme feminism that makes me evil just because I have a penis regardless of my personal character.

 

But a woman has his tongue. A woman can easily have beaten up by tons of men if she wants. Only one word coming out of her mouth would be enough. It is so in Turkey.

So no matter how strong you are as a man, a woman is stronger than you and she can easily have you beaten up by tons of men if she wants.

 

Yeah that can be a problem. If you are in a crowded club or bar and a women hits you and you pushed her off or restrained her you will have 4 guys on you right after that screaming "you don't hit women bro". The bouncer will probably throw you out especially if the girl cries.

I think most women don't lie about things like that but it's always a risk that a crazy ex can send other men after you.

 

I got drunk today and I wish I were a female drunk instead of a male drunk because being a male drunk is very dangerious. People beat you up including police. When you are a female, you are untouchable because of Women Rights.

Even police beat you up when you are a male but when you are a female, you are untouchable because of WOMEN RIGHTS.

 

OIY YOU promised me you would not drink anymore!!!!!