Issues...

Have you ever asked her what she is fantasizing about when she masturbates? Maybe she'll tell you and when you are "getting her off" you can whisper the fantasy in her ear as your fingers "simulate" it. (ie: "Im making love to you softly" while slowly fingering her.)

Believe it or not some women are embarassed by their masturbation habits. Just like guys are....so maybe you could ask her to let you watch her do it That way you can see what she is doing and how she likes it done. Let her know that it turns you on. If she is into it you could indulge in a little mutual pleasure.

Try not to get too hung on the "she doesn't orgasm" thing because all it does is deflate your ego and make her feel like she is a "broken". Not all women orgasm. Ad to that many women do orgasm but it is not like what Cosmo said it should be so they assume they didn't have one. Not everyone has mind blowing, sheet gripping, soaking the bed orgasms....sometimes it is like a warm breeze enveloping the body as a sense of contentment washes over you.

 

Yeah makes sense, we do talk about what she fantasizes about. It's pretty intense, she's a little embarrassed but she does tell me. It's usually very rough and sometimes like an imaginary girl friend's dad (ie older men) or multi men violating her. It never sounds like they are real people or anything, we do get close sometimes it seems. Made some progress last night actually haha.

Thanks for the tips "His Eden" I will make sure she doesn't feel "broken" i would hate for her to feel that way, cause i know she isn't. I don't think she wants her fatasizes to become 100% reality but we have tried some role playing of her fantasizes which have been pretty successful, still no orgasm from sex, but still very hot from the both of our perspectives.

Oh also she does let me watch, i can do the physical stimulation fine it seems it's just it would be we could get her to orgasm during our sexual foolin' around as opposed to her going off into her own fantasy all the time.

thanks again.