It's becoming a fad!

It's sooo wrong you calling anyone a fraud.Who are you to judge?Do you have to be so ignorant?

 

Im not calling any one person out as a fraud. You would have to be stupid however to not realize that there are people who frauds in regards to their sexuality.

But like i said, It really doesnt matter if other people are dishonest about their sexuality.

 

Yea, you know, I just figured I/d start being bi tomorrow so I/d be cool...

Naw, but youre a chick. Its infinitely more acceptable in societies eyes.

And ya, dont worry about others...thats the problem I have with coming out, cause it half seems like an attempt to get an attention, but then of course I realize the motives of coming out, like feeling more truthful and free, etc. But yea, a guy came out infront of our whole school and told this story of his parents beating him and stuff, and because it was so open, a lot of people offered him a place to stay if he needed it, but he transferred to Idunno a week after. It was weird, I dont know why he did, I hope it wasnt because of homophobia type stuff.

 

Well I'd mostly disagree with you.Yes there maybe some people who seek attention and are dishonest (I can't understand why),I'd say the majority don't do that and they are trying to figure out their own sexuality.If they seem to be a fraud to other people that's just more crap they have to take on the journey of finding themselves.Really there does'nt seem alot to gain by claiming ones gay/bisexual whatever unless you're a celebirty or something.I'm not in high school I'm not a teenager so maybe it's different for me I dunno. If you're young and in school to say you're bisexual today might be a fad I dunno.When I was that age you would'nt want to tell anyone you're bisexual/gay unless you wanted constant beatings,alienation and hate thrown at you.Maybe it is a fad now.
But who can really say who is a fake and who is not,being more accepting of people is what I'm trying to say and not taking it so seriously.To me I just let people be people,if they're faking it that's their problem but it's really not for me to say.What may seem like a fake may actually be someone struggling to find and claim their own sexuality which is difficult enough without all the judgement they get from others.If we don't want to be judged then don't judge others.Noones an authority on anyone elses sexuality Duh!!
Let people do what they've got to do.The forums are here to be a support environment let's remember that.There are alot of confused young people out there(I was one of them, many moons ago).It sucks not to be accepted.I just thought that it made sense not to be judgemental and angry at people.We have no clue whats going on with them.