It's Over

Good advice

 

Girl, you do not need another man to help you get over the old one. You know that song that says something like I can do bad by myself? yeah.
Men are just obstacles. get over em.
casual sex is great. trust, I know, but not like this.

but hey, gon' get it girl.

 

:smilielol5: that shit's for hippies...

and for happiness inside i don't know what you do, but i smoke pot!

 

Then when you sober up it's back to the real world where you hurt

 

no see cuz i don't want another man, i just want some good ol fashion fuckin' i've decided that men suck, so there for get what i want out of them, and be on my way to the next one...

from what i've heard it's not as fulfilling as one may think, but ya know it's better than being in screaming match EVERY damn day.

 

i am hurt, but ya know i've been smoking pot for years and years and it has made exceptional changes in my life for the better, i don't go around and pick nearly as many random fights anymore. and it's been a long time since i'm broke anyones nose.

so when i was a teenager i got in fights caused trouble and went crazy, i can't deny that, but when herb was introduced to me it did a world of good...

way off subject

i just wish me and him could come to so some kinda agreement and be civil and hey maybe even be friends, i'm all about the friends thing man, and i'm all about sharing the kid. i even told him that and what did he do, fuckin scream at me about how i'm a bitch, and he knew i was gonna leave him after i left him at HHB's house the first time that we weren't gonna get back together, well if he knew then why is he so pissed it shouldn't be a shock right?

 

whoo, girl, you are preaching to the choir.
I was smart and gave up on men when I was 18 and before I had anybody's children. Fuuuck that.
But seriously, I think perhaps, In the long run, it would be best for you to kinda take a break, then do the casual sex thing. Despite the fact that you think getting laid now would get you over him, afterward, it will feel incomplete. After a bit, Im not saying months or anything, a girl's gotta get hers after all but just give it a sec.
The fuck buddy things works best IMO, but not with a friend you mind losing. Unless said friend is uber cool.
Ive been doing the fuck buddy thing, and its great. just as fullfiling, but without the whole stranger thing. I think its less fullfing if you dont know anything about a person. then its uncomfortable. and, no screaming matches or arguments coz it doesnt get that deep.

Good luck and shit though.
and hey, dont bash on weed man, weed helps a ton in dealing with shit, but from a different aspect.

 

i'm cool that we have the kid, shit she helped save my life, and maybe you're right if i had some friends to casually have sex with around here that would be cool, but then thing with all that is i don't have any friends near by, i just moved here and my closest friends are like 5 hours away, and i'm just not into driving 5 hours just to get laid anymore, there was a time though i'd be on that shit, so therefore it's pretty much turned into random fellas now, atleast until i get back out on the road and see my friends again, there are couple guys i know that are all about FWB but i don't see them unless i'm out on the road which won't happen until spring probably late spring

 

Gotcha.
Invest in something non-latex that vibrates, girl. bahahahahaha

 

the biggest reason for me to feel bad is that i hurt wanderingturnup, i didn't want to, but all at the same time i can't keep on going on being unhappy. since i broke the news to him, i cryed a good long emotional cry, and now i don't just cry at random anymore, my heart doesn't feel like its sinking, my shoulders don't feel like there's about 50 extra punds on them, and my pinched nerve in my neck has somewhat subsided but it's still hard, i don't feel great or anything about the whole thing, i just want to be able to be civil when we see each other, providing he doesn't move to tampa permantly, and if he does move there permantly then he can figure a way to atleast get to GA cuz he knows i don't do florida under damn near ANY circumstances.

 

you aren't the only that's told me that

 

That's cool, just trying to help is all
Everyone has a personal method for moving on, if smoking pot helps you then that's the way to go!
As for what I do, really I dont do anything anymore. Over the past 3 years I've figured out that life is a blessing, even when it appears to be a curse, things always get better and if the dont? then fuck it :cheers2:
Hope you find what your looking for Dragonfly.
God bless

 

far be it from who i am to turn down casual sex with a person from teh intawebz who i don't know

i like boobies

oh, nice to meet you

 

Is sex not a form of meditation?

 

It most definitley is, any activity where one focuses on something is.
But when the root of a problem is used to try and reverse it, well, let's just say not everyone is cut out for it. Same thing goes for people who wake up with trainwreck hangovers and start drinking liquour immediatley.

 

Vegetable vagrant = Wandering Turnip.

 

You'll go to GA, but not FL? That makes a whole lot of sense..

 

Florida has its taboos for a lot of folks . i will NEVER set foot in florida again my damn self..

 

is it the fire ants? or the flying cockroaches?

 

its the LEO's