Ive tried to be straight

And I'm sure the fat chicks and nerdy guys wanted to both be someone else too.

And some of us are lucky. My mom didn't care. When I came out to her, she managed to make it about her. She's good like that. My dad and I had a falling out that lasted years, but we're finally talking again. And he admitted he was wrong and that he loves me no matter what.

Yes, and when you're young and impressionable, and confused and, constantly being told you're unnatural, wrong and immoral, you start to believe it and feel shame. It's common.

Not saying all of this happened to me or all of it has happened to anyone, but these are things queer people--especially young people--complain about enduring.

Oh yeah, no that's always a thing.

 

I've never tried to be "straight." Yes, I've pretended to be straight with people it should be irrelevant to, but I've only shared my bisexuality with my wife and any other guy I've been with.

 

Is there a specific reason as to why you didn't tell your wife of your bisexuality before you got married, like at the beginning of your relationship with her?
Maybe you could suggest the idea of a MMF threesome (which would imply both guys are bisexual). I understand a lot of women would be turned off and think two guys having "gay sex" is gross, but there's also lots of women out there who get really turned on by m/m sex, especially if they're involved too.
Watching porn together could be another option, specifically either gay or MMF bisexual porn.
If she's open-minded, it could be something really fun, and at least spark a conversation.
This is what me and my wife do. We watch gay (she's also bisexual, so sometimes we watch lesbian porn) and MMF bisexual porn together. It's nice to sit (or lay) beside her while watching two hot guys having gay sex (or two guys having sex with a woman and each other) while my own cock is rock hard and not be embarrassed or awkward in front of my wife. She almost always gets turned on watching gay or MMF bisexual porn as well, and we always "take care" of each other's needs from being so turned on.
We've also discussed the possibility of a MMF threesome with her boyfriend. She really likes the idea of DVP (double vaginal penetration). While I definitely wouldn't mind bottoming during a MMF threesome with my wife and her boyfriend, I'd also be more than happy to"just" share his cock (he has a really nice dick) with her (both of us sucking his cock and licking/sucking his balls at the same time) and eating his fresh creampie out of her

 

Pretending to be straight for most of your life probably did more harm (at least in your head and especially in your heart) than it did good. People, and society can be cruel and unkind to things they don't understand, but that's their problem, not yours.
Now that you have fully embraced your bisexuality, why not go out and find yourself a nice, trustworthy guy so you cannot only embrace your bisexuality, but also enjoy it?
It's never too late to start being true and authentic to yourself. One-on-one gay/bi sex can be, and is a lot of fun with the right person. Get out there and enjoy yourself. LOL