Just how kinky is your kink?

I have several dildos, butt plugs, vibrators. I bult a homemade fuck machine out of left over parts i had in the barn. My favorite is after a long day of barefooting i like to slide a dildo up my butt, jerk off then cum on my feet and rub it in like lotion.

 

cock and balls banding

 

I used to work in a stressful job with long hours, typically a 12 hour day. On the weekends my wife and I would play all kinds of femdom games lol. It as a great fun! I miss the good old days!!

 

I love urethral sounding. This is inserting rods made of metal into my urethra. It feels amazing. I have just bought a new one (I have loads) its 8mm in diameter with loads of ridges. Its really long too and it feels amazing all the way in my cock. It gets me harder than anything. I like to masturbate with the sound inside me and then just before I cum, I take a hit of poppers and have the best orgasms.

 

That's what I used to think, but a lot of things happen over a lifetime, that I never imagined.

 

I've had a number of kinks over the years:

(1) TASTING CUM: Early on in my powerfully gay desire and fantasy masturbation sessions, often imagining doing everything with a guy, sucking and fucking, and especially tasting and swallowing his cum, I always wanted to taste and lick up my own cum after ejaculating into a few tissues. But every time after orgasm all my gay desires left me and I had only revulsion for my semen. Then an idea came into my mind: next time I'll cum into a small tupperware container, store it in the freezer, and the next time I'm masturbating (by that time in my life I was only masturbating to gay desires), I would first take the container out of the freezer and warm it up a little bit in the microwave, and then go to bed, and in the middle of my fantasies try my cum from the container. So I did that, and, OMG, did I ever love my semen, while imagining it was another man's cum that I was licking up and swallowing, and I licked up every drop, and only then blasted my load, of course into that same container for next time. Now, of course, I'm just swallowing the load of every guy I'm sucking: I can't tell you how much I love cum, and love the intimacy of taking another man's essence, swallowing it and having it merge with my body.

(2) DILDO FUCKING: I also often would go down on my thick 8 inch dildo, deepthroating it eventually, while imagining it's a real guy. Then I would use my saliva to lube up my ass, imagining another guy was rimming me, sit down on my smaller and thinner 6 inch dildo, and fuck myself while holding it in one hand and stroking my cock in my other hand, imagining it was a real man and his beautiful gay cock that I was bouncing on, deeply fucking my ass with his cock. Even more recently, I have purchased a 7 inch dildo with a suction cup, and stuck it to the inside of my closed bedroom door, and then I back my very ready asshole, filled with anal lube, onto that "cock", and have my "man" fuck me doggy style, with me eventually cumming like crazy from a prostate orgasm all over the towel under me, hands-free. I just have to find that right angle to get his cock against my prostate. But I find prostate orgasms are best for me when I'm "on top". My last girlfriend also loved to peg me, because it gave her such a feeling of power, and I let her do that because I wanted her to feel that pleasure, but for me it did nothing. All I was ever thinking was how I wished it was a real man who was fucking my ass with his real cock. She also loved to get her ass rimmed and fucked, and I'd like that too, especially because she came every time I fucked her in the ass, and because I could fuck her bareback, whereas I had to use a condom with her pussy throughout our 3 tumultuous years together. Eventually I had to imagine I was fucking a guy in order to either cum in her asshole bareback or in the condom in her pussy. I just couldn't orgasm without thinking I was with a guy. It was then that I realized she just was the wrong sex for me. After our breakup just before Covid hit, I've been so much enjoying living as a fully gay man.

(3) When my gay desires first erupted while on a long road trip in 1992, when I was in Washington state, I just had to stop the meandering travel and head straight to the gay Castro District in San Francisco. Over the next two days along the way, I masturbated to the open gay porn magazines on the passenger seat next to me, pretty much nonstop, edging my cock all the way, only to blow my load during intense masturbation sessions in the motel each night. After that, on other long road trips, I constantly edged my cock to gay desires and fantasies. I did it especially to stay awake. A few times truckers in the right lane next to me would hang there, watching. That was so hot! Unfortunately I was so stupid and scared not to signal to stop so we could play in his cab. Doh!

(4) Despite all the fantasies for gay anal sex, and jerking off to rimming and fucking in gay porn, all that desire would disappear when I was with a real guy over the first 20 years I was getting naked with guys. Each time only cocksucking ensued, despite my intention of getting laid that night--every time. But after finally allowing my anal desires to come forth when I was naked with a real guy this one time in late 2013, I went apeshit tonguefucking and fucking this one guy's ass in a bathhouse. It was the greatest sexual experience of my life and changed everything for me. After that, I have had a real obsession with guys' assholes, like I was trying to merge with the men I'm with, becoming one with them, through their assholes--licking, tonguefucking and cockfucking those beautiful manholes. Then finally, a year ago, I went on prep so that I can bring that to a whole new level, fucking bareback and especially breeding, having my cum essence, my genetic seed, merging with my lovers. I still haven't met the right guy to give my own anal cherry to, despite all my self dildo fucking. But my kink is definitely the male asshole, in a super big way. I LOVE cocksucking, deepthroating, and tasting and swallowing semen. But it's the guy's asshole where are my uncontrollable desire explodes. I don't know why this is or where it comes from. I guess that's why I called it a kink.

 

1) Ass play with my first wife- she fucked me with a dildo and I gave her anal
2) Being spanked while a guy is fucking me
3) I've done some cross dressing--garter and hose, corset-- and really liked it
4) Making a video of me and another guy doing...everything
5) I had a long conversation on AFF with a guy in Florida who wanted to tie me down on my back spread-eagled with my skimpy underwear that unsnaps at the sides. He told me in exquisite detail what he would do. I loved it. I hope he makes it to Maryland some day, or me to Florida
6) Under the right circumstances, the idea of multiple partners is a huge turn-on.

None of the above seems too kinky, but it's a wide world

We'll see what else comes along...

 

Yeah, I've had to do some stretching out my self. Whether it's exercise or genetics, I'm tight. I use a thrusting prostate massager for practice. After 5 or 6 trials, I used it today with no pain. It felt good, really good. Now I want the real thing

 

I’ve always been pretty kinky over the years. I learned how to cum in my mouth without losing my desire for the cum. I learned how to get right to the edge of orgasm without the actual orgasm and a decent spurt of cum would come out into my mouth. Then I could finish my session with the taste of my cum.
I’ve had a lot of anal toys over the years. Plugs, aneros prostate massager, dildos and vibrators.
I’ve went down on and had sex with my wife after she’d had sex with a guy.
I’ve went down on a guy.
Still quite a bit I’d like to do but most likely won’t get to.

 

I've tried some light bondage which was fun. But, I basically controlled it. I want to have my wrist and ankles restrained where my top takes full control of me while sucking his cock and while fucking me. Full submission. He had everything there for me last time, but when he told me to get down to suck his cock, we just got lost in the play and forgot about the restraints, lol. He promised next time.

 

Everything we do! Even 11 years later it still all feels so kinky. Being fed cum, eating cum off my wife, or other wives, being naked with other wives, naked with men, seeing all that pussy, ass, cock, cum, breasts of other naked horny people often masturbating or playing somehow, eating other men's cum off my wife, their own wives, out of my wife, their wives. I mean think about that? I am eating another man's wife? I am eating another man's cum, out of another man's wife. WOW! I face and tongue is buried in another woman's pussy scooping out another mans' cum, eating sucking, drinking her/him with my wife encouraging me right there up close watching, possibly helping. My wife eating the other ladies with me, eating their pussies, my wife, eating other mens cum, sucking other men's cocks letting them fill her full of cum, sucking me off with other wives, kissing them full of my cum, sticking her tongue in their mouths and vice versa, sucking breasts, finger fucking wives with me, watching her finger fucking the husbands, the ladies strap on fucking we men, at times while we are sucking (69 dual fucking and sucking is AWESOME!!!). Being spit roasted in so many variations. A guy's cock in my mouth, another guy in my wife's mouth, pussy, ass, both, all three, oh My GOSH!!! It goes on and on, Spectacular! Train runs by the ladies, by the guys, everyone gets their turn over the months which are at times gang bangs (our group, not strangers who do not know how to do them), cum buckets - anal & oral, bukkake (yeah never ever ever thought I'd be a part of that or the victim of it - in a good way, I know I know it weird but actually fun when done well). Playing with other's cum filled holes, yeah kinky, sex toy play of all sorts, machine play of all sorts. My wife waking me up saying let's go upstairs, eat her pussy & suck his cock, fucking on the stairs so people walk in on us, join us, or watch, walking around cum filled, cum covered, pussy smelling, messy, drippy, with plugs, vibes, ldr's - those things are incredible! The wives setting up bathroom rape scenes (not harmful), shower scenes, getting ambushed in the showers, sex in the adult stores, sex in adult clubs, and so forth. Anything non monogamous is kinky as heck. Many things we do monogamous is kinky. Most everything is kinky. Doggy with my wife with a machine, dildo, or strap on for dp and so on.

 

When a friend is coming over for a blow job, exotic they are bringing a person for the first time, I like answering the door completely naked. Soft or hard.

Something about being introduced to someone in that situation of one sided nudity really gets me.

 

There is nothing better than stripping a guy naked, putting him over my knee and giving him a good spanking!

 

Lol, my wife did that on numerous occasions

 

curious what type of airplane you were flying. Sounds like fun!

 

After my wife spanked it red,she would grab the lube , pick a toy and fuck me with it. She would get douche chills and shake as she worked a toy in and out of my ass. I loved it so much and it felt so fuckin good, I would let her do whatever she wanted.
From vibrating buttplugs to taking the Manhandler Dildo all the way, they all put her in a mood that turned her into my anal dom wife. Like all good things, it wears thin after a while and we moved on to other things.. It was all good.

 

Not super-kinky. I'm into the Domination part of BDSM, but not so much the rest. I'm both an exhibitionist and a voyeur (Love to share pictures. Would love to just watch people fuck someday; hasn't happened yet). Have anally masturbated with a carrot and a small vibrator. Own a buttplug system and some toys (double-dildo for use with my wife), but haven't had a chance to use them. My wife doesn't realize I'm bi-curious and want to experience a real cock, not just anal sex toys. The only other sex toy I own is a vibrating cock ring.

 

I have noticed that my bf is getting a bit kinkier all the time. He is more and more demanding and willing to try things. I really like this direction of our relationship. I just can't wait for the next time, although I am a little bit scared of what's coming up.

 

Well...damn! Alright now.

 

Didn't think about storing my semen to try it later during my horny episodes. Maybe in the fridge not the freezer. I've also had similar dildo actions you. described like backing into one and sucking another.