Just not over it

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Cate8, May 7, 2008.

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  1. lucyloo

    lucyloo Member

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    yeah we should talk I know I could use it too, i'm here anytime
     
    lucyloo, May 7, 2008
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  3. scratcho

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    Damn,I hate to see girls learn this the hard way.It seems like these abusers are pretty adept in their routines of fooling girls.Hopefully these things have sharpened up your bullshit detecting abilities.I'm sorry.makes it hard for you to trust even a decent guy.Not to mention it being a waste of time.Makes the rest of us look bad.
     
    scratcho, May 7, 2008
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  5. Hilder

    Hilder The Ganja Queen

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    thats the goddamned truth. ^
    I love you too Cate. kisses
     
    Hilder, May 7, 2008
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  7. seamonster66

    seamonster66 discount dracula

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    Yea it does, I hate that aspect of it too
     
    seamonster66, May 7, 2008
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  9. lucyloo

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    yeah I've had a lot of trouble trusting other guys. On one hand it's been a good thing because Ive learned to stay away from bad situations, but on the other hand... it's caused me a lot of trust issues with the good guy that came into my life afterwards. and I hate my abusive ex for that. I wish I could just be happy now but I am always defensive and I can't let my guard down.
     
    lucyloo, May 7, 2008
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  11. Cate8

    Cate8 Senior Member

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    No kidding...
     
    Cate8, May 8, 2008
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  13. scratcho

    scratcho Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    It might be good if you girls can pm each other and really lay out what happened to each of you. Sharing mutual horror stories and methods of recovery,ect.might just be the ticket to some healing.The one and only good thing about this is that ,hopefully you now know what you-all will NOT put up with.Hope this helps and again ,I'm sorry.
     
    scratcho, May 8, 2008
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  15. Cate8

    Cate8 Senior Member

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    Its absolutely true. Im not feeling as emotional today as I was when I made this thread, but now I know ALOT about myself, and I know how a woman should be treated. Absolutely. Much better perspective and sense of proportion.
     
    Cate8, May 8, 2008
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  17. Makaveli_Reborn

    Makaveli_Reborn No?

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    Not to mention added self-trust as well as an ability to teach and help others. ;)

    Glad you're feeling better today.
     
    Makaveli_Reborn, May 8, 2008
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  19. Cate8

    Cate8 Senior Member

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    You are a sweetheart. xoxo
     
    Cate8, May 8, 2008
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  21. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    This may sound simple, but just to realize that their actions are a reflection on who they are, not who you are sometimes helps people a lot when they are getting over any sort of abuse.
     
    Bella Désordre, May 8, 2008
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  23. myself

    myself just me

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    What's the blog's address?
     
    myself, May 9, 2008
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