I have an idea. If one doesn't like how their partner's labia look, quit pestering them to shave. Duh.
I have never seen on a labia a single hair which could be shaved. Only pussies - I mean the female genital - not the persons ;-)
K, if my sis said she was going in for a breast reduction, I would not try to talk her out of it. she's up to a 34G and can tell me it's really not as much fun as it sounds. Boobs that big can really get in the way and be down right uncomfortable, not to mention complicate clothing shopping. Now if she told me that she has a genital size variation that gave her discomfort or pain, I would not tell her she should love her body the way it is when I know it's hurting her. That said, i'm quite happy with what I have down there.