Let me ask this

What about when it happens for the first time?

 

I did detect that a bit, but it still made me curious about how you convince yourself that "this girl is messed up".

 

Yeah I don't understand if its never happened before it happened before? So it happened before but it never happened. Is that the chicken and the egg type of thing?

 

you are going off topic in your own thread...

thats ok i 'spose

hmmm

no detectable pulse is a good reason

abrasive personality

i cant sleep with a racist

sore on the lip is a veto

man hands

adams apple

boyfriend

vaginal discharge and/or odor

hygiene in general

assault convictions

throwers


thats all i can think of atm

 

Well, it's a good thing you're only speaking for yourself. You don't seem like a very sensitive lover.

 

ROLLING, we are on topic, because all those things give you ED. Is a woman that is intensely beautiful another reason?

 

Yes it does, especially if psychological. It doesn't have to be a "serious mental problem" for it to happen - it can happen simply because of performance anxiety for example, which is not a "serious mental problem." The man could have had sex years before without issue, then get anxious over something and there it presents itself.

Most if not all men will experience flaccid penis at some stage.

 

You obviously don't know what you're talking about. I don't care what you've been lead to believe, but it doesn't happen to every guy and it's not "normal". ED is a "condition", not something that pops up out of nowhere because someone had a random, off based thought during sex.

If I had ED I'd be telling girls the same bullshit people have been feeding you to save some embarrassment.

 

Why this nastiness, xxaru? Show some respect. What Inca said is reasonable; I believe it's true based on my own experience. It's OK if you disagree, but why do you have to act like that?

 

I wasn't being nasty... just honest. Apparently some people can't "handle" the truth

 

No one has fed me bullshit. I suggest you do some reading up. Also, if it doesn't pop up out of the blue - how or what makes it happen the "first time?" The first time would be a FIRST - out of the blue yes?

ED is a condition, but not necessarily an organic one, and if it is psychological or organic it has to happen for the FIRST time at ANY time. I would say there is a 99 percent chance that you will have a flaccid penis at some stage in your life. Whether it happens once or a hundred times is irrelevant - the fact is it will happen for the first time "out of the blue"....it is unrealistic to expect an erect penis every time during the duration of sexual interaction for 60 plus years of regular sex.

You are very inexperienced of the facts of ED. Please read up on "performance anxiety" and similar psychological causes - the first time performance anxiety happens, it happens "out of the blue."

Your brain (and mind state) are 100 percent responsible for your erection, if the brain cannot send the right signals to keep the blood pumped because the mind is elsewhere then the result is a flaccid penis. Men *may* still feel extremely turned on when the penis is flaccid, ED doesn't necessarily take that away (unless the cause is being turned off by the partner) - ED is just a matter of the blood not being sustained in the penis.

Here, let me help you learn something - or are all these men and sites liars? Ask your doctor, I am sure he will tell you. https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=e...nowhere&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en&client=safari

An erectile dysfunction forum will also give you answers - listen to other men and learn something - http://www.pegym.com/forums/erectile-dysfunction-forum/

As for it not happening with a random thought during sex, you could not be more WRONG. There are SEVERAL cases where men are erect until the point of penetration (which is definitely psychological) - which again, has to have an "out of the blue" first time....

https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=e...10,d.ZGU&fp=1b7b714d78c4f4fb&biw=1024&bih=644

You obviously do not understand that your brain and mind state are the most powerful sexual organ you have, and that your penis is simply the tool. I am afraid you have made yourself look foolish.

PS: This might be hard for you to understand, but the most common test a Doctor will ask a patient to carry out to help determine if it is psychological when ED happens is to put 2 or 3 bands around the penis before sleep in specific places. This is because men naturally get hard on and off when sleeping and also get morning wood most days. If the erections occur during sleep/morning wood when no psychological factor can intervene with bloodflow (due to sleep state) one or more of the bands will break - and then the Dr will know the ED is very much likely down to a psychological issue. In such cases, Viagra et all can be a massive help.

In organic cases where there is a physical medical reason for lack of bloodflow (diabetes, heart etc) then the pills may not be as successful.

On an important and serious note, I would urge any man to get checked out if they experience ED a few times despite feeling embarrassed as it ****may**** indicate cardiac issues. (A flaccid penis once or twice is normal and not cause for concern, no need to see a doctor unless it keeps occuring.)

 

Have you ever heard of things progressing gradually? Someone may start out being able to get it up just fine, but on occasion have a problem maintaining a rock hard erection. That could progress to the point where they can still get it up initially, but now rarely can get rock hard. Then that may progress to the point that they have a problem getting it up at all. Progression… it’s really not that difficult of a concept to understand .

Are you a guy? Have you ever had an erection? Do you have any idea what it takes to have or maintain an erection? I’m guessing not. I on the contrary have an enormous amount of experience in this arena. You talk like it’s a total crap shoot for a woman whether the guy she’s with is going to be able to get it up or not. Don’t try to give me that “it’s perfectly normal” bullshit. Yeah, you may be right about guys in their 60’s, but aging can have that affect on people.

I guess guys like me must be an anomaly. It’s so hard for a girl to find a guy that can get it up and stay hard, that they go crazy for the few of us that can actually deliver each and every time without fail. See, some of us guys are quite in tune with our bodies (and our minds) and know "exactly" when something is off or beginning to slide. Unlike all these "normal" guys you speak of, I can get it up anytime, anywhere. So I’m quite confident in saying there won’t be any “surprises” when it comes to my performance in the sack. You can bet your 99% that I will continue to get it up (and keep it rock hard) without fail, for as long as it takes to get the job done, just as I have done countless times before and shall continue to do well into the future. As long as I have my health and am in shape, you can bet my dick will always rise to the occasion :smash:.

Yes... I must not be human

 

LOL, well at least now we are 100% sure you are female.

Xxaru might be being a bit of a dick about it, but he is right. You just have to employ a bit of propositional logic to the issue.

If for all guys they are going to experience trouble at least once in their life, then ones that never have a problem dont exist.

But if there is at least one that never has the problem, for that one at least, the problem doesnt exist.


Regardless of all that, There are guys out there that can switch it on at will, no matter what, I know that. The variation between guys in this area is kind of freaky

 

Yes - it is a scientific fact that an erection comes from the brain/mind. As I told you (and you keep failing to hear) if brain signals are not being sent to the penis, for whatever reason, even something as simple as worrying about performance, the penis WILL go flaccid. Your erection is reliant on your brain/mind.

It IS perfectly normal to experience a flaccid penis once or twice during a lifetime - anymore than that and it needs looking into.

 

Did everybody hear that? I'll accept the dick accusation (I've been called much worse before)... but no one can deny that I have made very valid points here.

Just as I prefer not to take my diet advice from a morbidly obese person, I (and I'm sure others as well) prefer not to take erection advice from a woman. Even if you were a female urologist that specialized in ED, you have no concept of what it's actually like, what it feels like, and what it entails (physically or mentally) for a male to get and maintain an actual erection. Everything you know (or think you know) about the physical experience of an erection can only come from the reports and analysis of other males that have actually experienced it for themselves first hand!!

So please, spare me your "expert" analysis on a topic that you obviously have ZERO personal experience and expertise in.

 

LOL, xxaru all your macho spouting just makes you sound more insecure...

 

^^^ Who cares how insecure I may be. It doesn't change the facts when I'm right

 

xxaru - For the record, telling you that I think you should stop acting like a dick through a rep comment is not saying anything behind your back. It's saying it directly to you.

 

Its very complex. There's been too many that I've been subject to soft dicks. It's causing a complex in me. This last guy during our first time together and the whole night was plagued with ED. Later, he said it might have been because I was on my period. Since then....several times....it's been hot hot hot hot. He was so afraid I wouldn't give him a second chance.

 

He is so far off the mark it is not even humorous. Please do some reading up, and ask your doctor if in doubt.