Let's be honest here: chicks who don't sleep with you the first night

Sure. When women are entitled to half a man's life earnings for getting divorced. That's sexism.

When men have no reproductive rights. That's sexism.

When men can be arrested for domestic violence and rape or have their children taken away without due process as in the VAWA. That's sexism.

When women are bumped in front of the line for welfare benefits. That's sexism.

When the feminist lobby pressures the FDA to deprioritize the commercialization of the male pill. That's sexism.

When johns can be arrested but prostitutes are legal, as in the bizarre case of Sweden, that's sexism.

When woman-on-man harassment, rape, and abuse is summarily dismissed by the courts, that's sexism.

 

Fair enough.

 

that sounds like it might be it, right on the head. whether a woman fucks you the first night or not is most likely complex. maybe she just isn't in the mood. maybe she's on the rag. maybe she's not into you. maybe she's got someone else on her mind. maybe she's feeling used. who knows? the way people choose to feel about things are funny sometimes.

 

Yeah, I gotta admit he does look like one greasy, slimy mother fucker.

Lol, the date zone. Well, I suppose there are worst places one could end up.

 

Auschwitz?

 

I don't lose respect for a girl that does, but I respect her more if she doesn't fuck on the first nite!

 

Lol. I do find it a bit strange though that if you were already rounding second base as you say, that she would put the brakes on all of a sudden like that.

 

It means there probably is some guy out there that she would sleep with on the first date, just not you. That's life get over it.

 

I wouldnt sleep with either of you, especially not on the first night.

Plus your forgetting that people like Ronaldo are worth something in the public eye and monetary wise, a lot of people would want to fuck him just because hes famous.

 

He's been with far more girls than you have yet he is the one that repels women?

So why do you need to reassure yourself he is damaged or abused cos he likes casual sex? Let me guess gritting your teeth, wifey only gives it out once every 6 months, but you're standing by your 'values', only you know the 'joy and intimacy' of monotony, rather than admit you are a dumb mutt, anyone else not stupid enough to fall for the marriage crap and that gets more sex than you has to be damaged or evil somehow. That makes you a better person

 

I would, I don't find him attractive at all.

 

Probably because, from what I've seen on here, you are rude and act as if women should bow down at your feet because you have a penis. Get over it dude, there are many women in this world who wouldnt sleep with you, many who would, many who have. Every woman (and man) is different to the next, you seem to categorise people too quickly. You sound sexist, even though you aren't, a lot of your posts come across as woman-hating.

 

He sounds like he's been abused at some point because he clearly has issues with women. Not because he has casual sex with them but because he's never given any indication that he likes or respects women as human beings.

 

I know you'd get to third base within the first 5 mins. because of your manly qualities. I'm sure you can hit the sweet spot between smooth, confident, and rugged that drives women wild so. Rawwwr.

Ronaldo is super hot. Yum yum.

 

Dude, your taste in men, is awful.
:toilet:

 

really tho. that guy is gross. example of a guy i might fuck within minutes of meeting? maynard keenan. brandon boyd. conor oberst. some sexy singing motherfuckers right there.

 

Yes, of course a girl just may not want sex on a given night for any number of random, viable reasons that have been listed. And that's fine. But in this case the girl specifically stated her reasoning as being that she wasn't "one of those girls". And there can be a lot of things going on behind that.

 

By his own admission :

I have been with far less girls than he has, indeed, but I am hit on by women constantly. I'm not bragging here, it happens to certain guys, and it's actually a problem at times, believe it or not. Women can be egotistical hornballs too, and it can get really ugly when a beautiful woman throws herself at a man in front of all her friends, expecting him to swoon and look at her with "OMG ARE YOU REALLY TALKING TO MEEE" eyes, and instead he turns and says "No thank you, I have to get up early tomorrow". and completely shuts her down, the way she completely shuts down 60 guys a day who throw themselves at her.

lol, i'm not married, i have a girlfriend (who i plan on marrying) and we have an incredibly active, adventurous sex life. I am extremely sexually satisfied, she is incredible in bed and frankly, so am I. Again not trying to brag, just the way things are. I see a lot of hatred towards monogamously happy people in this part of the forum. Frankly there's nothing out there for me to be interested in except the outward physical beauty of other women, which I still admire and appreciate, but as for any urges, desires etc, well, as corny as it sounds, she completes me Beyond the amazing sex we have a profound spiritual and mental connection between us that I have never seen in another couple. When I tell people what we have in common, how we met, how we've developed, they are awe-struck. So I also understand that I am extraordinarily lucky.

I don't think I'm a better person or that Cherea and others who play this game that he plays are evil or stupid. I do think that they are going about it all wrong however. I think they are deceiving themselves, and that secretly all these people who swear by the one-night-stand lifestyle, would drop that lifestyle in a heartbeat if they met someone they could actually respect, love, and live with the rest of their lives. The very sad thing is that it just hasn't happened yet, and it might not ever happen, and the worst part is that playing this promiscuous game and getting too deeply into it can actually completely block any chances of it ever happening, because you're only getting exposed to people who are absolutely not ever going to be "forever" material. So it's a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Guy gets into a bad committed relationship or 2, guy figures all women are stupid/monogamy is stupid/commitment is stupid, only allows one night stands in his life, never meets a girl who's actually quality material in every way, able to fulfill him on any kind of psychological hierarchy imaginable, so he continues having one night stands with women who are doing the exact same thing, putting themselves in positions where they will never meet a man for the long run because they construct the rules of the game and the definitions of the terms such that it cannot be possible.

You Gorilla, are the one who sounds very defensive and bitter. I see you often chiming in Cherea's threads to back up his point of view, and frankly the line between you and someone like BackDoorMan is not that thick...

Take a good hard look at how your particular instances of relationships have worked to form your opinion of women, relationships, yourself, and what love/attraction/commitment means. I read these threads and all I see are a lot of people who are wandering. If you're happy wandering, good for you, but just know that there are other people out there who got to stop wandering, and it's wonderful

Ultimately, to each their own. :sunny:

 

Oh, yeah. The classical case of the guy who could fuck any ol' chick if he really wanted to. Where have I heard that one before.

 

at least it's a change of pace from reading the same tired old "i have a 9 inch penis and it takes me 4 hours or more to cum" posts.