lets talk about....

Well nitenite from Norway guys and gals Sleep tight

 

lox hunny pm or im me if u wanna talk
and hey..fuck havin my freind drop in on your freind just get me a number and ill call her and talk to her directly.
if nothing serius is up at least she will know ya are cioncerned and hopefully will keep in touch more
but i gotta tell ya i havent met her and im conmcerned.

 

thanx for your words SE, it realli gave me a different perspective on what could be happening. I mean it's not normal for someone to cut out all their friends for no reason. Thats the thing, it's not just me she's stopped talking to, all the people she went over to NY with she stopped talking to, all our friends from college. Nobody knows whats going on w her. I just want her to come home and find out whats happened and get her on a good track or something. We had so many plans. We were going to buy a tipi and a VW van and make a lil shop of all our handmade clothes, art and things and travel around sellingI want these things to happen. I don't know what I should say though, I think I have to be quite careful w what I say. I mean I don't know what 'direct' words I should use..?
Thanx though, I realli appriciate all your replies^-^

 

get me a number and ill talk to her for ya
if shes the tipi type traveler u say i know we will hit it off real easy and that will make it easy to be freinfds and talk bout the more serius issues.

but if getting a numbers impossible, i know you your a gentle soul more into purring then pushing so ..heres lil bit of what id suggest

hi michelle
(thats the name righ?)
its great to hear from you but im highly concerned that nobody has heard from you. if your relationship demands that you abandon your freinds that relationship is ultimately harmful. if he demands you leave the freinds and family it means hes scared that freinds will keep him from controlling you. freinds are the biggest enemy of the abusive control freak, now im not saying hes beatting you or ever hit you or even mentasly or emotionaly abusive, but cutting you off from all you care abiout is abuse, and you seem like an empty shadow of your former self, pleasee forgive me for saying that, or even assumming there is a rewal problem, im just very concerned as are many of your freinds you left behind
all i can say is, i know its hard to break free from a controlling man, but its not impossible..in fact it becomes easyu if u just have 1 thing...freinds.
so pleaee, talk to me..for real, no vagureness just open up and tell mer whats really fgoing on and why youd leave everything behind.
you are really missed.


something like that

 

thats great SEI'llwrite her today. I had a number for her but it hasn't worked and since I've changed my simcard so don't have it anymore. Hopefully she checks her mail somtime tonight or tomorrow and considers coming home. She's illegal over in the states now. She only had a holiday visa, so I don't know what'll happen to her if/when she tries to leave. She's been illegally working and drinking over there (she's 20)

 

with the way things are now, or at least were under bushes reign of terror any lil thing shed get in trouble for could get her deported (and never be alloweed basck)
hopefullty things will change but , it was scary for awhile..a freind got married in sweeden and the day thenm tried comming back he was deported (her new hubby) over something minor
just sayin its a risk these days.

if u want to try gertting a new numbdr id be happy tgo call and try talking to her..even help her out if need be.


or if u want pm me ill give ya my numbver to pass on to her if u think thats better

 

I say, it's rather quiet in here.

 

There's hardly ever anyone around over the weekend usually, at least thats what it seems like to me..

 

just us folks recovering from hangovers..ughhhhh

 

i agree, its sparse round here, i didnt have a heavy night though, im strangely bored today, hence the random pics in the sexy dready thready lol

 

I'm going out tonight. Which is unusal, for me at least lol. It'll be about the second time in the past 2 years Meeting my husband's workmates for the first time! Scaryo. And in Norwegian, meh. Think I might actually have to take my mini dictionary with me like a tourist

 

you need an electronic translator machine gadget thing =D

 

Or my husband lol

 

i had one of those when i went to spain, all the spanish folks were fascinated with it lol

 

You had one of my husband when you went to Spain?!

 

ha ha yes, we have gone on numerous secret holidays together.....lol

 

Meh I'm scared. Poo. Doing normal people stuff is such hard work.

 

awww, why dont you consider yourself a normal person amy?

 

I totally agree and understand! Doing normal people stuff with normal people really drains me of all my energy.

 

Yes. I feel a bit better now I'm dressed up (e.g. jeans but a slightly nicer top than usual and a bit of glitter daubed here and there ) Wish me luck!