lets talk about....

I'm guessing the needle gets hot because of the friction from them moving so fast but I may be wrong but what really hurt for me was the colouring in the guy did on the Chinese words and he missed a line on one of them because I guess americans have a hard time writing chinese but its nothing that can't be fixed in a matter of minutes. I should post a pic of my tattoo I'm so proud of it and myself I thought for sure I would wuss out too.

 

im surprised your boring bf didnt cancle to play video games

whats he do from home to make $
selling drugs?
tell him that it dont fucking matter if he doesnt make money for a few days they'll be jonsing twice as much when he gets back so he should get off his lazy ass and go camp

otherwise if u want a life ya gotta find 1 independent of him, cause franklly it sounds like he doesnt want 1..gather your freeinds together and go
or wait didnt u say u had no freinds cause hes jealouse of both guys and girls so wont let u do nothing with noone?
there ya go, tell him if hes not gonna go camping with ya your gonna go with 10 guys and girls

in fact fuck it do that..go to the nearest local drum circle and invite everyone out for a drumming camping weekend

then just pick a secluded spot and go

 

if I knew that many people that I knew how to get ahold of I would

 

if i was nearby id go. id give anything to get outta here

 

if people weren't such back stabbers

and that's all I'm gonna say about my ex-friends

 

your in south carolina?; i know a few ppl in north carolina whod love to with you.

 

aha. story of my life, that.

 

back stabbers? i thoight your bf's jealousy was why ya had to lweave most of em behind. or was i wrong about that..
what do u mean biut backstanbbing? getting sick of not being able to hang out so gave up on ya?

 

nah your right I'm just talking about the fact that I use to have 30+ people I would hang out with daily. Most of them just pretend they don't know me when they see me. He just ran off a few more friends than I did. (meant to say he instead of I)He likes when I hang out with my friend Kristie but the rest he says he doesn't trust. And also if I moved back to nc I would have a ton of people to go camping with everyone up in nc is a nature freak but down here in sc not so much.

 

sounds like my ex. i wasnt allowed to hang out with boys cause it clearly meant i was sleeping with them (wtf?!) he claimed he didnt trust them, which translates as he didnt trust me... the best day of my life was when i got dumped. best day ever.

 

i kinda have a feelinmg she'll find that out too

i know ya say ya love him and all, but well sometimes thats a blurry feeling just having someone there even someone clearly wrong for ya
'think about it even the most brutaly abusive assholes have wives that claim to love em till they throw acid in theyre faces or try setting them on fire (not as common as daytime talk shows make ya think, but, those overly controlled women believe that is love right up to the point it disfigures and nearly kills em)


go campibng with anyone ya can find a few datys away will do ya good

 

dreadedsunflower... You are so young sweetie, and although young love is very strong, it is unlikely to last forever. I hope you don't stop living your life for some man, because you can never get those years back. I agree with smelly... I once got dumped....and it was the worst experience ever. then a week later I was living the life and out and about doing so much fun stuff. Although I never hope for someone's heart to get broken, I do hope you get to live your life.

and back to the tattoo thingy... I have a few and I never felt heat, but it was the coloring in that hurt the most... you know... bringing the needle back over open wounds.
I'm getting a tattoo on the top of my feet next week...I'm thinking its going to be the most painful of the ones I've gotten. any 1st hand experience out there?

 

I think I just need to put my foot down and tell him what I'm going to do is what I'm going to do there's no stopping me.

 

i have tfreinds that did theyre feet, 1 is a tat artist herseldf and yea the top of the foots the most painful thing u can imagine

 

good for you
remember, your strong.. he acts the way he acts out of weakness and insecurity
it makes him feel stronger to push you around..ya know that whole act like a man and put your woman in her plafce bullshit..
but your the 1 with the power unless u alow it to be taken from you

 

he has been lightening up since i took care of him and catered to his every whim after he had surgery he feels like he owes me. He still doesn't understand "quality time" but he is getting there. *******must be patient********

 

I'm starting to think that even if we weren't meant to be we are suppose to learn something important from each other.
I think he will learn how to treat women and how to loosen up
I think I will learn how to believe in myself and push myself to do well

 

One of the best things I have ever read from you!

 

ya should also learn to care of your bneeds 1st.. its fine if he wants to be a waste and stay home playing games and worrying biut who ya hang out wityh..thats his problem not yours but its not ok when it affects yiou so u gotta be willing to say sorry dude im hsanging out with my freinds im going camping ..im having a life with or without you

 

ya have no idea how much experience i have dealling with this kinda thing..far far worsethen this

1st time ever was the worse..a woman with 4 kids ..39 years old who had the word no beatten out of her vocabulaery at age 8
when i met her, she was a slave.. to this psycho that got off making her promice to abandon her kids and even commit suicide if he asked her to.
it took 6 months to deprogram her 18 hours a day and hed erase all the progress with 10 minutes of punnishment

the final straw that broke the spell thouigh was exposing the guys weakness
a sexy freind got him on film begging like a baby for a glimpse of her ..in tears..then..i confronted him about how he treatted this woman and he was too fucking scared to even respond and her left her alone from that day on...

it gave this woman her life back..a year lawter she was married to a really good guy, and repaired her life and finaly was able to say no..

the weakest men try to feel strong by pushing around women and making them feel weak
but the women have the power if they choose to use it
the power comes from 1 thing
the willingness to walk away unless things get better..
walk out and he'll either try to change or..you'll be free.. till then why should he change igf he thinks he'll alwayts get away with shit