Letting my boyfriend fuck some random chick

if it doesn't bother you, you should let him fuck someone else. why make him wait if you think you'll probably never fuck him?

 

I would honestly freak out (in a negative way) if that happend. Hell I had a lady (very young to me) make an offer and I flipped out inside like I was a perv for her being interested. I have been told I am too nice and that some mistake it for something else. I try to make it clear I love my single uncomplicated little world and have no desire to change it.

 

um , this.... and WHY?
You don't want to fuck him- but you "love him" and want him to be happy. I mean, I get if you aren't ready- but anyone in any sort of relationship with and sort of respect would wait with you.
It almost sounds like some weird control issue over sex. You won't let him fuck you but you might be willing to LET him fuck someone else? weird. Does he tell you when he washes his nuts ,too?

Maybe break up with him let him fuck around and see if he does , or if he chooses to stay in a relationship with you

 

I gotta agree with PR in some respects. I feel that sex is a huge pressure in this society and it's becoming an expectation at an earlier age.

I don't think all people are ready for it when it does happen...IMO

I would advise to stick to your plan and just hold off.

 

don't listen to the fools in this thread. give the guy his cake and let him eat it too.

 

you're such an ass

 

you love it

 

well, i knkow that if i were in that situation, i wouldnt ok him to go fuck other people. i mean, if youre holding yourself to a higher standard, why shouldnt he? why do you want him to be all slutty and sleep around with whomever, just because you arent ready for sex yet?
(btw i think its very mature that youve decided to wait until youre actually truly ready for sex to engage in it)

 

Whip cream and cherries would be a great idea for this thread!

 

If you are not ready for sex, that is perfectly fine. Do not do a thing you dont fully want to do. But....I personally would find it very weird to let said bf 'fuck' some other chick. On one hand you seem to think of sex as special, and on the other hand it isnt sacred to your monogamous (if it is monogamous) relationship. That doesnt really click for me....but do what you think, you are most comfortable with. Just make sure he respects you.

 

Telling him he can screw around at this stage in your relationship is sending a message that it might always be ok. Also, what if he picks up an STD or gets someone pregnant? If he can't wait for you, then cut him loose. If when you ARE ready for that kind of relationship you can pursue that with him at that time. Be smart about is.

 

The bottom line is respect. And don't treat yourself less than you deserve. You know you are important.

 

not to mention...
perhaps this issue is more sensitive to him than it is to you.
Maybe telling him he can screw around will hurt his feelings. Make sure you understand his feelings as well.

 

if you don't let him do this he isn't going to respect you.

 

hahaha you stay outta this buddy boy

 

Im just going to occupy fitzy with the three food groups...over...here......before flannel makes her decision hahaha

 

noooooooooooo

 

This is why I never get into serious relationships. I don't care if the guy I'm dating goes off with another girl as long as I don't hear about it. If I'm in a relationship - it's completely different. Maybe you should take a break and just be friends with him if he can't handle the no sex issue.

 

I almost forgot to add, just because you give him permission, if he goes off and does it, it doesn't mean it will hurt any less. Just a warning.

 

just give him a handjob and make him do your homework.

fucking christ... :leaving: