Life long dilema !!

maybe she is confused, maybe she liked you as a friend and you got on great but when it became more she was worried she would lose that close friendship. I have been there on that one, had a great friend but when we got out on a date things where different between us afterwards. I don't think you would have done anything wrong by not taking it further on that night because if she has known you for a while she would realise that you are the sort of person that would take it slow.

I think those other comments are unfair, there's nothing wrong with what you did, just don't call her and give her time.

 

At least he was respectful. No need to get angry with him.. so what if he didn't force her into doing something she didn't want to? That's the right thing to do, jackasses.

He has common sense and more dignity than you guys.

 

dignity is not an issue here......naïveté and inexperience are.............

 

So basically what you mean is that i should have ripped her pants off even is she didnt want to and force her in to things she does not want to do ? Isnt that rape ??

Im a old fashioned guy, some day i hope to find a girl who recognizes and wants to be treated the way i treat wimen !!

 

Hey man its not inexperience, it´s values i believe in and respect i have for most wimen !!!

 

So because this tread has been pretty hot i thought i would give you people some update....
Its been 2 weeks since we have not seen each other, usually i an the one who would call but i have decided to test her, i have not been calling and not answering her e-mails as frequently and now I guess in her mind she thinks she is loosing me because I have been faking un interest and slightly moving away also whenever we chat i NEVER bring up the topic "when are we going out again" and now whe is coming after me finding excuses to chat etc...

What do you think ??

OBS. I was pretty drunk in that message i posted wich started: A go fuck yourself hahahaha

 

I guess its the famous provocative "dance" people play !!

"now thats a fucking dancer" Mark Renton (Trainspotting)

 

good bye and good luck.....I'm done with this thread.....