long distance relationships

That is beautiful. I want that, I hope that I get that one day. It's good to see love like that. Man, I need to find me a man, lol jk. One day. =)

 

Long distance relationships are hard. Being away from the one you love is so damn difficult and sometimes it gets so bad that it physically hurts. But it's worth all the pain and tears when it's for someone you really truly love and want to be with. Some days just are harder than others and then you can't really think about anything else except how much you miss him and how badly you just wanna feel his arms around you and be able to touch him..

Yeah, I'm having one of those days right now.

 

Thats very moving Jo..


Merry christmas.. hope the new year brings you closer together.

 

Thanks matt. It will, and I really can't wait. Three more months.

Merry christmas to you too!

 

I know what it is like.. of course i am to shy to be telling all ..

You better be posting some lovely pictures...

 

Aww. PM me if you feel like it. We can dwell in the misery together.

 

I miss him I miss him I miss him
I hate that feeling. Just wanting to give him a hug but the best contact I can get is hearing his voice. 6 more days of waiting, although today is almost over.
The days after he's just gone are like depression, but its been two weeks without him now. I'll be there for two weeks and I can not wait.
I guess its all worth it anyway.

(sorry for ranting about it, I just feel really.. alone right now )

 

Ok, I must post my peice... since I am also in a long distance relationship. My story is that we are both military, we meet at a school where we were only living temporarily. It didn't star there, it started with a friendly visit because we both had nothing better to do. I have never been happier with a guy, but I am not with him a lot. There is about 1900 miles between us. Hopefully in less than a year we will be together... but it won't be much less than that. We both defiantly have our days where we want to whine and cry like a little baby about the whole situation, but we have managed pretty well so far... It gets harder though every time we visit, we feel closer, and then have to leave each other again. Of course that being said having lots of phone, internet, e-mail time where you feel more comfortable reveiling thoughts is helpful. I feel like I know him better than my previous marriage and I lived with that guy for over 3 years.

That being said... he will be here to visit me next week and New Year's Eve is our unoffical 1 year anniversary We didn't really hook up that day... but its pretty much when it all got started.

 

I have had a long distance relationship before. It is are quite real and I enjoyed most of it.

There is however this frustration and a certain horny longing for her. Sometimes my stomach hurts because of this accumulated horniness and non release.

 

In a way I think long distance relationships are better. Not being able to hug and kiss the one you love is really really hard but it just makes you want it so much more, so when you finally get to be with that person it feels so much better. When you're close to that person all the time you kinda start taking him or her for granted.. you get so used to them always being there. But when they're not always there it really makes you cherish the moments you get to spend together. I think being so far away from your love is a really good test on the relationship. If you can't handle being away from the other person, is the relationship really real? Is is really love? I don't think so..
If it's real love then a stupid thing as distance can't mess with it.
Of course it's a lot of hard work and it definitely hurts not being able to touch and hold that one person you love more than anything.. and you get those days where you just want to cry and feel sorry for yourself cause you just want to be with your baby.. but when you finally do get to be with them, doesn't it just make all those days, all the tears and pain worth it?
If you really and truly love somebody you'll do everything you can to be with them, so if being miles apart and waiting for months to get to see them is what it takes.. you'll do it

 

wow, that was so beautiful And so true Gawd I love you

 

I was hoping you'd read that I love you too, so much

 

Oh my goodness.. thats so true.. I really couldnt have said it better myself.. haha it almost made me cry a little bit

 

I once had a relationship with a married woman from Miami. I guess you could call that cybering. We were very emotionally attached and then she moved to another place and I lost contact with her.

I still remember her. I guess you can say I still love her.

 

My girl wrote that

You're the best a guy could ever want

 

that's so sweet i'm glad you liked it

aww you're amazing :&