Your girlfriend needs to become more confident and understanding. If she wants you to come, she'll have to do something about it or stop complaining. Especially since from a female perspective there's nothing to complain about in the first place... Sure, it 's nice to come at the same time, but it usually doesn't happen. I guess your gf needs a little reality check . How long have you two been together? Are you her first? Is she shy? It could be that she's just inexperienced and doesn't know how good oral sex can actually be. Make sure she's relaxed and try kissing and touching all of her body - especially stomach and legs...see where that leads you You already got some great advice in previous posts. All I have left to say is that you shouldn't feel bad about yourself. There's a lot of women out there, who wish their guy didn't always finish in 5 min. Good luck!