Sweetie, this is coming from a girl, so I may have insight on this... my best advice is, don't rush the intimacy. If she feels pressured, then it may destroy her feelings for you, or put undue stress on your relationship. Be gentle, affectionate, and romantic... The rest will come when she's ready. Don't let your hormones ruin a good thing. All in good time, my pet!
I ain't ever been in love. Ain't seen or touched no tits in 5 years. Ain't been kissed for 2 years. So yea I'm definently a lonely heart. I want to meet someone soon. Still a virgin too.
yehh this is were i belong. cool thread title lucifersam. yeh im a huuuge comittment phobe. but at the same time i really really want to be with that one person that you love and your on the same page with. weird right? everything is so complicated.
That's not weird. You don't want to commit yourself to someone who isn't "the One", you don't want to waste your time on something that might end up not working out. Every chick has that dilemma. Good luck to you, hun.
I'm in love. I really am. The thing is, I hate myself for it. I hate the fact that I love anyone. No one deserves to be loved by me. It's true. When I fall in love with someone, I start to feel really fucking sorry for that person. I feel so terrible when I think of her. No girl would want some crazy bastard like myself thinking about her night and day. It's so fucking sad. I should be shot. I really should. It should be noted that none of the people I have fallen in love with have ever loved me, and I'm always in love with someone. I'm crazy. If a girl simply talks to me, I can fall in love with her. I mean it, too. It doesn't make sense, but it's the truth. Just my relationship/love thoughts for today...
I think the best thing to do is fall in love with completely inaccessible people. I don't know if I'm being serious or not.
I'm in the right place, I'm all alone. I like this one guy, but I dunno if he is interested in me, I need to talk to him or something! Any advice what to say not to sound desperate??
Lucifer, it might not be love per se, if someone just talks to you...might just be infatuation. When I met my girl for the first time, I felt like I was in love the first three weeks...I think about it now, and I think it was just infatuation, being with someone new. We've been together for more than 2 yrs now. Now it's love, not infatuation.
Oh yeah, I forgot... That never worked out, anyway. Turns out she was living with her boyfriend, so yeah. I never really thought it was love, though. I don't know why I said that. But I really did like her.
Why don't you explain a little more? Maybe someone can help... There are a lot of people around here who would be willing.
Yeah, that's kind of the whole reason I go by Orsino. (As well as the music). I suppose I have the best of both worlds. I have the ability to love everyone before I come to like them and I could be playing guitar at the same time.
I just tought of that, we are for peace and love, and almost nobody in this thread got the love and affection they need ...
well i psoted the thread"i fucked up" , and thats still going on. and other than that im still alone/lonely/single/friendless/hopeless/depressed. etc. even after going out and trying to have fun, partie meet people, it doesnt work. lets say i go to a partie were having fun i can finaly find some one who i can relate to, are hang out with, or like. it will never go past that night ever. its bogus every time i find some one i really like it doesnt work out, or she doesnt feel the same.etc .... i can explain more, but i think you get the point
It happens to me too stonr , when i talk with somebody i can possibly relate too , well it fucks up and i make a mistake ...