Lucifer Sam's Lonely Hearts Club Thread

Heh, I don't think you have to ask.

 

Is this a club that I really want to join...

 

Yes My lovely girlfreind brok up with me about 2 months ago. She lived on the other side of the united states(north-south) from me. Stuff ahppened and she decided she did not love me anymore. Its sad but we are still freinds, She is suicidal which is odd for me to be with someone like that but she has so much potential! well anyway I need to find a woman who is beautiful, liberal, likes bud, loves to laugh and loves to have an awesome time.!Someone who is outgoing, spunky, goofy, funny, sweet, more intelligent than i am, loves classic rock, hippy, beautiful hair and eyes! I love to love!

 

Haha, well I was a member before, but now I have the official link in my sig. And yea, who knows, maybe I will get laid now! I can just tell all the girls that I'm a "Lonely Hearts Club Member" and BOOM, they'll be on me like flies to shit!

 

Or they will just stand there puzzled.

 

I'm stuck somewhere between being a teenager and an adult. It's as if life is throwing choices at me I'm forced to make when I do not want to think about them. I don't feel I've had a suffiencent childhood, nor past and I think that clouds my judgement or my readiness. Anyways, I'm in a relationship and have been since I was 16 years old. We're both 18 now, I'm nearly 19 and I can't figure out what we have. We love each other, in varying degrees. I think we love each other truthfully because of what we've shared, and I don't know what that means. I want passionate love, which I think we could have perhaps if we didn't see each other for a while (we're long distance for now anyways, so I guess not talk to each other for a while would be more correct). Either way, I know both of us would be ok if we broke up and would move on, but I don't know if doing that is the right thing. Our interests and our goals don't always match up, but it's not so incompatable as to pose problems so much as just little tremors in our relationship. I can't explain that either. I do hope if something happens to Ed and I, that I would find someone closer to my goals of a more natural lifestyle with the cob house and organic gardening and anthropology and midwifery. None of that is prevented, perhaps stifled just a bit. You may be wondering why I want to be in this relationship at all, and the answer is really easy to understand but hard to write about. There is too much to let go of for so little, if we had guarentee's we'd be more secure with either staying together or letting it go, but of course life has no guarentees and we're not looking for them. At this point, I'm not in or out of your club, but I'd love more friends. I think I rely on Ed too much to replace my friends who I've lost (usually to marriage, go figure)....... I am online most of the time, waiting on either Ed or another online friend when really there is a lot I'd love to do here, but I'm lonely for friendships. I think my relationship relies a lot on me finding very close friends and the ablity to develop my interests independently of him for it to work.


I'm not sure how this relates, except I wish life were easier and pretty all the time, but I guess then it still wouldn't be perfect and perhaps even monotonious. I never had the 13-14 year old relationships, it was always serious for us. From the start. I can't relate to needing that sort of love, I am glad at 13 and 14 and 15 I was not in a relationship, as I do feel I'm better off having not for my own reasons. I do feel the lonliness of someone totally understanding me, feeling me and knowing me though. I do hunger for that. Intensly.

 

Haha, if I did that, I'D be puzzled at myself!

 

There's this amazing girl I met at the begginning of this school year. She's a grade below me and we go to the same school and youth group. i really like her and I'm pretty sure this isn't just a crush, she's really nice and we're friends, but I don't know how to get her into my life, dammnit it's so frustrating!

 

I just need some friends to love.
lonliness prevails, weekends spent with my head in books doesn't help

 

i wanna join the club! im lonelyyyyyyy, i just got back from Canada and i miss my friends.. everyone continued with their lives (obviously) but i was left out *sigh* so... well... i'll join u guys

 

im a lonely heart, but im not joining. relationships suck. objective ness sucks too.

 

right. I need to properly join - can I tel you my tale of woe *melodramatic sigh*

Well, theres this boy i've liked for, wow, a year a half? We used tro live in the same university dorm type place, and we have the same circle of friends. We've never actually done anything, but whenever we meet in town or at a party we have had some very close calls - the intense stares, the slow dances, it's been undeniably flirty - only i could never get up the nerve to actually tell him i like him- he's gorgeous, funny, and so many of the girls I know like him. I never thought i stood the slightest chance.

Then, on saturday, after a night of some more than usually intense flirtage - it's been buliding up more than usual lately - his best mate, and a good friend of mine told me that the guy likes me too. So finally, i thought i could maybe let him know that its mutual - but when I saw him about 20 mins later he was scoring another girl, who we both happen to know.

So yeah, I suck. Sorry for the writing splurge, but can I join properly?

 

hun, you can always be in this club.

Actually I don't run it, but what the Hell, if I say you're in, you're IN.

**hugs** That's too bad it didn't happen with your boy. But maybe it will another time?

 

I'm IN, are you?
But don't talk to people who aren't IN you'll waste your minutes!

 

yea i think ill also join this swinging club.



IM IN BITCH!

 

Eh, I wish it was a good thing to be here...

 

It is! In its own ways.

 

lol, thanks....I don't know though - meh.
I think I'll be staying here for a while.

 

question:
am i still the only lonely aussie ?

 

I've always been a member of the Lonely Hearts Club, even before it became a topic of discussion in here. People nowadays are so emotionally dead and insensitive that they use other people for their own selfish gains, and throw away the empty shell when there's nothing else to take. I'm tired of it, and I'm not messing with anyone, till I meet someone that's going to be worth my time. Believe it or not, I become attached easily, and am so gullible that I'll believe anything that comes out of my loved one's lips.

Say it with me = SUCKER!!!

Please, be kind to one another and remember that even if you aren't attached to someone, they can be attached to you without your realizing it. Have the decency to let them know if they aren't the one, don't play with their emotions. That's just cruel.

Have fun young'uns.

This old lady's gonna excuse herself to go play with the other old folks at the geriatrics home.