Mad at partner for masturbating?

Recently I walked in on my hubby of 30yrs as he was enjoying himself to some computer porn. I noted as he was getting himself together what was on the screen before he click off. I just went on like I didn't notice which in hind site was probably the wrong thing to do. It made me hot and also bothered. Now, don't get me wrong, although I have never caught him, I have found magazines ect. through the years and no big deal. I've been pleasuring myself for years and realize that it really has no bearing on how I feel about him. But the kicker is that his hiding action has made me very curious about what he was looking at. I went on his history and the smart devil had been incognito on chrome. Even had a lock on his history so only he could see it. I can't stop thinking about that part. I have even set up my own lock and am using incognito at this posting. I have sent him some pics of me which has spiced things up but not sure I can compete with the girls on the computer. Although I am 50, I'm trim 5'8", 145lb. This has started to made me suspicious of him and I find myself wanting to check his emails and phone. Not sure that I am handling this in the right way. Any suggestions? I'm really interested in hearing a man's point of view.

 

i used to wonder why at one point why my ex'es socks were always odd....'til i found the other halves stuck-piled behind the bedroom computer desk
he wanted it day and night and i couldn't keep up. randy little devil!!
he liked anal and it bloody hurts. god, why cant a guy ever be happy with the front door??

 

Unless its completly obsessive and gets between a relationship, its just natural surely.

 

About 1o seconds ago my girl walked into the bedroom and saw me looking at this,(in bed and hard), she was not real happy but understands if she's not up for anything, I will have some fun alone.

 

I'm very happy with the vag as long as I can fill it with my cum. Otherwise I could see myself needing some ass so I could cum inside the girl..

 

yes i believe boys will be boys and they like to oggle other beautiful women, no harm in that unless you percieve yourself to be lacking in some way. confident women wont find it bothersome...it wouldnt bother me unless they started asking me to do the things they watching and i dont like it. men can be real in to the hardcore stuff and i draw the line at some things. so porn is good for the boys to get their rocks off over some wacky fantasy.
but remember girls....boys only last a few seconds when thowing one off over a hot fantasy. its just a selfish blow-out. whereas he really experiences seeing us pleased, and enjoying ourselves when he gets back to reality.

am i right boyz?

 

Spot on.Though my better half helped me out this morning :devil:

 

Guess everything happens for a reason. Although the thought of him hiding something from me was kinda driving me crazy, I decided to try to give him what he was looking for on the computer....I've been sending him explicit pics of me and texts as if I was someone he didn't know. We even watched some couples porn together last night while we enjoyed ourselves. WOW!! I think I started something...