Ha! No, I don't do gambling gaming of any kind. She was all giddy and mentioned they met at a widow/widower support group.
We all lose enthusiasm about different things in life with time. Relationships with big gaps have a higher risk of interfering with the younger partner's enjoyment of a time of his/her life. He/she will adopt the ways of the older person and because of that, will miss out on things typical of his/her age at the time. I think it is a bad idea. Of course, in some cases it may work well, but my guess is that these are exceptions. I fuck younger men, adults who are 20 years younger than myself. But I wouldn't lock them in a real relationship with me. I'd want them to enjoy their youth like I've enjoyed mine.
Or the opposite of that happens and the older party lives a nice active adventurous life with their younger partner. (provided they take care of their health from youth on up, around middle age though I see guys stop paying attention to their eating and working out habits though, sometimes due to time constraints with kids and job hour requirements.)
I'm 43, and had a very significant relationship with a woman who was 21. We were extremely compatible in all of the important areas, and I had more energy than she did almost all of the time. I don't think age is important at all in a relationship, provided there's compatibility, understanding, and real love. The relationship ended for reasons entirely unrelated to the age difference.
Exactly. My boyfriend is 13 years younger than me and I really don't feel the age difference too ofen. I am 43 and he is 30. We have been together almost three years. We have a very active and adventurous life for sure but also are like a typical couple who like our nights at home too. He is great with my daughter too