Man dating woman... 19 year age difference

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by drumminmama, Mar 6, 2013.

  1. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    A 71 yr old woman you go to Bingo with?
     
  2. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    Ha!
    No, I don't do gambling gaming of any kind.
    She was all giddy and mentioned they met at a widow/widower support group.
     
  3. Logan 5

    Logan 5 Confessed gynephile Lifetime Supporter

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    Last fiance of mine was 64. I was 33.
     
  4. Just_a_woman

    Just_a_woman Member

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    We all lose enthusiasm about different things in life with time. Relationships with big gaps have a higher risk of interfering with the younger partner's enjoyment of a time of his/her life. He/she will adopt the ways of the older person and because of that, will miss out on things typical of his/her age at the time.

    I think it is a bad idea. Of course, in some cases it may work well, but my guess is that these are exceptions.

    I fuck younger men, adults who are 20 years younger than myself. But I wouldn't lock them in a real relationship with me. I'd want them to enjoy their youth like I've enjoyed mine.
     
  5. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    Or the opposite of that happens and the older party lives a nice active adventurous life with their younger partner. (provided they take care of their health from youth on up, around middle age though I see guys stop paying attention to their eating and working out habits though, sometimes due to time constraints with kids and job hour requirements.)
     
  6. kiloheavy

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    I'm 43, and had a very significant relationship with a woman who was 21. We were extremely compatible in all of the important areas, and I had more energy than she did almost all of the time. I don't think age is important at all in a relationship, provided there's compatibility, understanding, and real love.

    The relationship ended for reasons entirely unrelated to the age difference.
     
  7. tommy81710

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    Exactly. My boyfriend is 13 years younger than me and I really don't feel the age difference too ofen. I am 43 and he is 30. We have been together almost three years. We have a very active and adventurous life for sure but also are like a typical couple who like our nights at home too. He is great with my daughter too :)
     
  8. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    Cheers!
     

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