"Man/woman of your dreams": Did you end up with him/her?

That said, I couldn't be with someone who didn't share certain views that I have. But, that isn't a 'perfect' person, rather someone I could live with without us constantly arguing!

 

What about attractiveness/looks?

 

The guy I'm with now seems like the man I dreamt about, in the way he treats me, speaks to me, jokes with me and loves me. I can't see us not being together..ever.

 

My ideal dream guy's description has changed with every guy I've dated. I'm with someone who makes me happy, though. I can say there are things about him that I could live without, but all those things cease to matter when he just holds me and we just fit together so right. It just feels so right, it's hard to explain to someone who doesn't understand the sentiment. Before I found him (and for once in my life I wasn't even looking, what luck!), my ideas of a perfect guy had been sanded down to wanting to make a commitment. I was so tired of guys saying "I love you" and then leaving. I guess I can say 5 and a half years later, I'm pretty happy with what I got.

 

No, because my sense if perfection is flawed. I do believe I've met, and consequently ignored, people who were probably perfect for me.

 

I have not met the woman/man of my dreams yet, but my standards are close to impossible to be met in actuality.

 

True.

 

Ended up, nope. Never will done, did, over. But I know what I want now, more than a lot of people can say.

 

Which is? Sorry, idle curiosity and not hoping I meet the criteria.

 

a lot of people dont know what they want. Thought it was pretty self-stated

 

I've never dreamed about the perfect person for me.

 

Interesting.

 

I met a good one. She's not to bad other than having kids. I have one daughter, but she has moved out and is on her own. We use to have sex all of the time and now I practiacally have to beg for it. So now I'm looking for someone to just have some booty calls with. I need to fill that void, but if wifey isn't givin it up, I have to get it somewhere else. Hope I don't get attacked on this one.

So any girls out there looking for a booty call evey once in a while? ha ha....

 

Yes, but I have been with him since I was 17, so I was just lucky. Plus, as my ideals have changed, he has met them. Is he perfect? hell no...neither am I! But, I always tell my friends, that it would be stupid to leave/divorce him just because we don't always get along, since I would pretty much marry a guy so similar to him, (personality wise and maybe physically) that it would be kind of scary. He treats me better than amazing and is a great person. Perfect for me.

 

Doesn't exist. Be happy with what you got now.

 

When the lights when out, my perfect match would disappear.
This was the one person that could by my true equal.
To understand everything I did, from my perspective.
When the lights come on, I shall see into the mirror again.
All that I have, but I guess I'll try to be happy with that...

 

For a little bit, yes. Not exactly "of my dreams", but she was once my imagination many years ago. Then I met her last year, but I didn't really think she was the one I "created" in my head until I started dating her. Almost everything about her, I once imagined in my head many years ago. I freaked out and told her all about it, and she freaked out, too.

We aren't currently together, but something tells me our "separation" is temporary. Our union was way too paranormal and uncanny to be a short-term the first time, but neither of us was ready for the intensity of it all. I'm preparing myself for it at the moment so I can handle it better. I really hope she's doing the same, whatever method she's using to go about it...

 

yeah i have never either.


i don't know how it would go......?
i am super deep hard in love...
but i guess love will do what it does, and i think i would feel like a real smug mother-f to know better than love....... haha.

 

I don't believe in "man of my dreams" but the guy I'm with now is as close as it comes, though. I guess I never realized what I wanted or needed in another person until I started dating him.

 

I think that's a shallow and materialistic way to approach your soul mate. I believe you have to open yourself to discovery. Be willing to learn about people and embrace things outside of your expectations. You might be surprised at who you meet.

We've been married almost 19 years. Wouldn't change it for anything in the world. When I met her was she the person I'd dreamed of? Probably not but soon she was my best friend and then more.