How despicable that anyone would cheat on their spouse/love interest and think it's okay just because you're "bi". Being bi does NOT give a person carte blanch to have as many random partners as you choose while keeping your S/O in the dark. If you're a male doing this, the extra risk of bringing home an incurable STD to an unsuspecting partner is even more deplorable. (Anal sex, assuming you engage in it, is considered a high risk activity no matter what precautions you take, so remember that next time you're shitting on your committment to your partner.) I try to have an open mind and heart, but if I hear one more bisexual whining about how badly the gay and straight communities treat them, all the biases and misconceptions about bi people having no morals, I'm gonna puke. Get real! Can't you see you're living up to those very stereotypes and more, or don't you care? Does it even matter who you hurt in the process of self-gratification? I know I sure as hell wouldn't put up with a partner who cheat on me, whether with a male or female, and I only hope your s/o's figure you out before it's too late. (If you have an open relationship, this doesn't apply to you. But lying is lying, deceit is deceit, and what goes around comes around to those too cowardly and selfish to honor their marital vows and relationship promises.)