Masturbation help please?!?!

Try thinking bout your teamates while softly moving your hand slowly over your clothed crotch, use your wrist to pull your pants or shorts nice and tight to you, slowly start doing circles with your arm. When it feels right work your way down a layer, and then ahhh. O yeah and dont focus on an orgasm, just think about what turns you and and the effects of that.

 

Exactly

 

uhhhh........NOO!!!!! Im not asking for pictures....im trying to figure this thing out.....but whatever...think what ya want.....i posted pictures of myself on here, and i have tonnsss more....so i dont kno how u could say that?!?!

 

Well, I've had friends dealing with issues similar to yours. I am a very open person and I am friends with very open people.

It's okay to be attracted to or turned on by other girls even if you aren't homosexual or bisexual. It's important to feel good about yourself. It's YOUR body. You can explore it as little or as much as you'd like. What you think and fantasize about is your own so do whatever feels good to you. Try thinking about sex in general when masturbating. I started before I was in junior high so it's always been something natural to me. Just do what feels good. Also, try different positions (that seems to be important with me). I can't masturbate lying on my back. I have to be on my stomach. Weird.

 

I agree with one of the other posters. You're probably turned on thinking about your friends just because you are intersted in masturbating and know that they do it. Watching porn may just feel too cold or impersonable. May I suggest fantasizing about your friends and what they get up to when alone. Lay on your tummy with something soft between your legs (like a small pillow) and just rub against it. Just let it feel good and don't worry about what you're doing or how it looks or whether you'll orgasm or not. Close your eyes and let your mind go wherever it wants. Remember, it's just a fantasy. Try that and see what happens.

 

Yikes, you're just thinking about it now? I've got a good ten, twelve years under my belt.

I dunno, I just started poking around down there one day when I was 6 or 7 and it felt good, so I kept doing it and then started twitching and fell off the couch. I knew then that that was the best moment of my life.

Try buying a vibrator. One of the adjustable vibe ones. Go to Spencer's. They've got a marble vibe, it's awesome. http://www.spencersonline.com/luv-stuff_massagers_collections--kits/marble-vibe-assortment-4-colors/

I've thought crazy things about some kiddies that I go to school with. And sometimes acted on them. >_>