Hand 95% of the time, Fleshlight a couple of times a year. I just stroke in different ways, feels so good.....the best!!
It would seem a bit more fun than poking a hole in very sensitive tissues for a piercing, just don't swallow them..
I start with my hands and sometimes use a dildo in my ass. Before I got my dildo I used to use other things around the house, either to insert or to penetrate. Cucumbers, bananas, melons, toilet brush handles, hairbrush handles, etc.
This may not be an answer that's expected . I recently rebuilt our outdoor shower. It's a must have. They're great for so many things. Yesterday I installed two full length mirrors inside. On two different walls. Afterwards I decided to shower off before going to dinner and couldn't resist rubbing one off. The mirrors were perfect tools for visually watching myself enjoy the fine pleasures of masturbation. And afterwards I used the hand wand for cleanup
All of the above. Typically hands because it's easy. Dildo close second. I don't always orgasm with it. Sometimes it's just fun to take.