Meaningless Sex

I mostly agree, but one thing I found to be almost always the case when I was in my phase of 'sex without commitment', was that no matter how much time I spent making it clear what my intentions were, the sexual partner ended up trying to pressure me into a committed relationship. In the beginning when I would say I am not interested in commitment period, they would agree completely. Later, anywhere from a couple days to a couple months later, their tune would change, and I would have to walk away. Some even got upset with me for not changing my mind, and sticking with what I made clear from the start. That was 10 years ago, and the interest I had in that activity has now gone away.
For me, nothing comes close to the lovemaking that two people in love can share, and it makes any other types of sex much less attractive, imho.

 

Actually, one doesn't really know whether sex is meaningless or not until the new "relationship" has run its course.......and I mean "relationship" in a purely technical sense.....

 

i think meaningless sex is an oxymoron. just because sex doesn't lead to a long term relationship doesn't mean it's meaningless.

 

and knowing is half the battle!

sorry, GI Joe reference to a navy man....it had to be said, though.

 

LOL...thanx kc...such a sweetheart! That gave me a nice chuckle!

It's true though...I have resigned myself to the fact that I am a dirty old man and it is best for me to aviod temptation... because if a woman I am attracted to makes a play for me...

 

i think he is dropping a hint, ladies....

*lol*

 

No, just being honest.

 

yeah, i'm the same way. i'm disgustingly easy, therefore i truly avoid putting myself in situations that dave would not approve of. that's all i can ask of dave, as well. he didn't go blind and numb when he married me. gorgeous, sexy women didn't stop existing. and attraction is not love, it's just a biological imperative.

 

I dont think people like us are "easy" I just think we like sex a lot and, well variety is the spice of life right?

 

too much spice will give you indigestion. lol.

 

Aint that the truth. And you cant come home smelling like spice either!

 

nope. sure can't and you can smell spice a mile away.

 

I wouldn't say meaningless, 'cause it's not really.. I'd say casual sex. Casual sex is fine and dandy, but not too often. Every once in a while perhaps. I've had three sexual partners, only one of which was a casual thing.

 

Thats all good when youre single. If youre single you have the obligation to get all the casual sex we married people cant get anymore!

 

pfft! casual sex is entirely too lackadaisical for remembering when you're married. you wanna get some truly fun and hilarious stories, like the guy you dated just because he had a motorcycle and he got you high and while you were fucking you kept forgetting you were fucking and was really excited to realize you were fucking everytime you noticed. or the girl who pulled you into a closet at work because "you look good today." or haulin ass down a country road in a minivan to fuck like rabbits after a party, only to be awakened by 50 mormons who stopped at the same spot to check out the huge lily pad pond. now THAT's good times.

 

Thats awesome! Or the time you were fucking a girl after work and her boyfriend comes knocking on the back door of the store wondering whats taking so long, but you finish anyway...

 

i would indulge...i'm going through a bad period of sexless living and it isnt very satisfying...but now that i think of it a bit more...i dont think i'm up for that kind of thing anymore...depends with whom and my state of mind at that moment. maybe yes, maybe not.

 

ar that time your room mate brought home four boys from omaha, and y'all partied till four in the morning but couldn't really finish until the next day when your room mate was out because you had bunk beds...and you had to go to work anyway, but you told your boss you were hungover and he let you go home....

or when you were out drinking with your friends and drunkenly at 2AM decided to go spelunking, but thankfully your best friend was sober and so you used up a box of condoms with this one guy....and your best friend STILL busts a gut laughing over hearing your man yell "oh my god! i must be dreaming!" from a quarter mile away....

or that time when you broke your foot dancing to a ska band, and THEN got drunk and hitched a piggy back ride to some guys house who was hysterically funny...

 

Wow! Or the time your girlfriend was being a complete bitch and then decided to go to florida and do a buch of coke with her friends and you werent invited so you called a girl and she brings her best friend and they have coke anyway so you stay up all night till you roll off and have to go to work and have your yearly evaluation...

 

hahaha, or that time you were dancing at the renn faire and this guy just walks up to you and starts making love to your neck...so you find a tent...and all your friends stand around and listen and make fun of you! and you end up being late for your friest performance on stage but then....everyone else is late, too, and they're all fucking stoned anyway....

or the time you had sex in your bf's jacuzzi and his future stepfather and mother peer down from their window to witness the joyous event then have to face you in the morning....

or that time you were fucked up and decided to fuck in the park...