meaningless sex arises when a guy or girl tells you that they care/love/etc you just to fuck you and then drop you. That sucks.
it's still not meaningless. did you love them? or were you fucking them to receive love? either way, you kinda learned a lesson, therefore there is meaning.
I think sex is just so much more when it is with someone you know and love and they feel the same way too!!!
Avoid, I'd be way too scared to get pregnant or catch an STD. I wouldn't avoid it for ethical reasons, don't have a problem with sex outside marriage/steady relationships for that reason... if medical science were a bit further along, real 100% dependable birth control methods instead of about 99.5 % & AIDS cured, I'd sure like to have some occasional fun for the evening!
dont you think like way more people die from work or travelling to n from it than from wanton fornication ?
I've never engaged in meaningless or as some of u put it casual sex. I don't think I could engage in sex w/o the love.....that would be so weird to me. Don't get me wrong I LOVE SEX....but I've only had sex b/c i was in love!
Probably, but more people die from travelling to and from work than from bungee jumping too. Aactually I know, rationally speaking, that's quite safe when done with a reputable company, but I'm still not able to convince myself of that when standing on a platform a few hundred feet off the ground. When I'm too worried to enjoy the experience, what's the point? I don't miss it much.
this has become a meaningless thread .....now are meaningfull threads freer than their counterparts of dread disease??
I think that Sex is fundamental to maintaining lower blood pressure ;getting your partner to stay with you & for innermost emotional / libidous expression.But sex also gives you unwanted pregnancies-sexually transmitted diseases-H.I.V. & Aids. 'Meaningless Sex' by which I suppose you mean emotionally-devoid intercourse; seems to be the prevalent 'desire & fantasy' of every Teenage/Young Man. -"I'm getting off with so-&-so". The best sex is within a loving & caring relationship with your other half.This is repeated throughout the Animal Kingdom where promiscuity is extremely rare. Sh** ...........I am so goody,goody,nicey,nicey on here, I'm bound to get banned from this Topic Section.
i would like to point out that promiscuous sex doesnt have to be meaningless. It would mean a lot to me, to have alot of sex
you're so bad heh. i can't have sex with someone i don't love and i can't even get aroused unless someones insanely sweet with me.
i know what you mean there lyns.. but i'm sure i can get aroused even if i dont love the girl, but it sure helps.
eh, I would do meaningless foreplay maybe but I have to feel something for the person to have sex with them.. Not necessarily a serious relationship or love but something
physical attaction for me, and not someone dumber then a rock! THose are my criterias right now but I do admit that having emotions for the person you get intimate with does help when it comes to orgasm time. greg