And...a lot of times they say they are horny, they really mean they want a boyfriend or husband. Like, "OMG, I need sex so bad!" BUT, "I don't want it to be with just anyone" because "I won't settle" (until some guy has a lot to spend on them). Or, at least, not until their next trip away from home when they can fuck the shit out of the nastiest guy they can find, unsupervised. But of course, "It just happened. It was beyond my control", so, suddenly, the same guy that would be creepy and sleazy in any other context, becomes hot and appealing. lulz
So OP you slept around and then got upset that nobody wanted to buy the cow? You ever think maybe your just easy and this is your fault?
^ She already recognizes that she's responsible - she knows she was too easy to trust. All your post is is confirmation that some men act like heartless dicks. Not helpful. No relationship takes one person - it can only be partially her fault.
It does seem like you might be attracted to bad boys which tend to be emotionally unavailable. Keep up the good work you're doing to understand why that is and it will become clearer. Remember, if you make it too easy for them (sex) they have no reason to become your boyfriend don't they? It also sends the wrong image. I'm not saying to wait until marriage but it's a question of balance I think. X
I'm sorry you feel this way, there are genuine loving guys out there but just like genuine loving girls, they are rare. It is best to develop yourself first, however. With time between your own efforts and the cogs of fate you will find who you are seeking.
this goes for both genders: All you have to do to make someone fall in love with you is act like you're the most charming, fun-loving, independent, free-spirited person around. Don't act desperate, don't ever show him that you care about him more than he cares about you, don't ever wait for his call, when he does call you and you're busy it will make you that much more desirable. Don't show jealousy. Always make it clear that you have other things going on in your life, but only things that don't come with any baggage. Act like nothing in the world bothers you because you're just so busy having fun and being happy. Seriously, I figured this out in my early twenties. Guys will fall all over you and treat you like a goddess if you act like that. Its a game, and its a retarded game that I stopped playing as soon as I figured out how it works. BUT, it does work.
For the most part we treat people how to treat us. Most relationships are a series of games that go back and forth. Pretty stupid, but that seems to be the case. If you'd like a guy that doesn't play juvenile head games, don't play the game. Most men want sex, if they can fool you into giving them that, they'll take it. Not all of course. If a relationship is more important to you than just fucking, put off the sex until a decent relationship is in the works. Don't play the game, don't become some guy's fool. One can usually distinguish a genuine person from someone who isn't genuine if they don't buy into all the shit a person says. Because women are amazing and wonderful. Some guys just want to get with as many as they can, which is why they'll cheat or not settle down with one. Are you saying that women are disposable, or that men act that way? If a guy acts that way it's because to him, you are disposable. Every woman has a vagina and can offer him what he wants, he doesn't care about the rest of you if he acts that way. Because they play the game to get sex. Same way a drug addict will lie to get drugs. Same reason people lie for all sorts of reasons. If you don't judge them based soley on what they say, you might realize that the guy is a douchebag before you sleep with him Yes, of course. Yes, of course About 7 to 12 seconds of eliminating fluid at approximately 28 miles per hour inside a vagina that's about 45 degrees. Feels pretty sweet. :2thumbsup: That a guy actually likes you? Most decent guys will treat you well, not demand sex, not ask you to do things that you're not comfortable doing, etc. Pretty well the same way a best friend treats you, plus sex. :2thumbsup:
At first I read that as 45 degrees fahrenheit. I thought to myself, oh my god, lunar's been fucking dead women.