MEN... i've got a question

I just have to say this, being a girl who is a virgin. I really hate topics like this. Its like most guys on here don't care about the girl who is the virgin themselves. Why would you think masturbation would help any. I mean sure she would know her body better, but why should a girl be judged on her virginity. I think sometimes guys on here need to think that they were once virgins before they answer this question.

Tiffany

 

Once upon a time, a long long time ago, in a land far far away, a weird dude named the old Troll was born. Back in those days a young woman’s virginity was something to honor, respect, and admire! I’ll bet that perspective seems foreign and antiquated to many of you. SophieClair may very well be the only female virgin that frequents the Love and Sex forum, and deserves an apology from many of you. Shame, shame, shame. All you virgin boys should really hang your heads in shame.

SophieClair - -It seems to me that masturbating would allow a young woman to learn more about her body and it’s responses, but I don’t know for a fact since I’ve never had a long-term relationship with a woman that was a masturbator. It seems to me that it might be a transcendental experience to have never masturbated nor orgasmed until the first sexual experience with the love of your life.

I respect and admire your honesty and backbone SophieClair!




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I think the general agreement here that tightness is more about muscle tone than the breaking of the hymen. This being the case, does it no make more sense that muscles, in general, are better toned with regular exercise.

Sexual intercourse is not merely a matter of inserting a penis into a vagina & stimulating it by rubbing it against a non-responsive wall (unless, of course, you are into necrophilia) - In the same way that there are frequent pleasurable pre-orgasmic contractions experienced within the penis as the thrusting stimulates the nerves, a similar reaction happens to the woman, triggering her pelvic muscles to tighten & relax, thus providing an additional rhythmic 'milking' action against the penis. This is all part of nature's scheme of things to make reproduction a symbiotic act & to increase the chances of a successful ejaculation & consequential conception.

Although I may find masturbation by using the FleshLight as a vaginal simulator as being the nearest sensation to experiencing real sex, it still lacks that responsive variance that would otherwise be provided by the reactions of a woman also enjoying the sexual experience.

So, in summary, discounting the hymen, which is rarely still intact when a woman first has sex anyway, due to a host of differing causes, I would imagine that a woman who has had plenty of sexual experience is likely to be 'tighter' than a virgin anyway, simply because of having kept those muscles in condition.

 

IMO the general physiology of the pelvic area in general and the pelvic bone in particular are the primary things that determines a woman’s “tightness” and muscle strength contributes a much smaller amount.

But, why do all you young’uns talk to much about tightness? It makes far less difference in sexual pleasure than the woman’s attitude about sex and about you. The urban myth about the value of vaginal tightness corresponds to the one about penis length.

Once you get past the stage of masturbating with a grab, wank, and cum as quickly as possible attitude you will find that fingertips and a light touch give a lot more pleasure.



Have fun, play safely, and eat your honey!