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Rigamarole · Feb 26, 2006

ihmurria said:

sounds like something best kept to private discussions or pm's
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Absolutely not!

The two of you ought to have it out right here, in a GRAND BATTLE ROYALE OF THE SEXES - TICKETS ON SALE NOW!!!

I'm bringing popcorn.

Green · Feb 26, 2006

Rigamarole said:

An addendum to what I just posted - I went back and read your post again and thought about things I have felt in the past and more than anything I think he's just trying to impress you. This might seem baffling to you, since obviously you are not impressed, but let me explain.

There's a certain amount of pressure on guys/men in our society to be go-getters of women, and it is very easy for a guy to feel insecure if he doesn't feel like he's gotten enough of them. I know I have felt this way, and it automatically leads to the conclusion: "Something's wrong with me. What the hell is wrong with me?" From there it becomes an irrational attempt to prove to others that you have indeed had sexual conquests, or else they will think the same thing you do - that something's wrong with you.

In the end, what he really needs to know is that you want him how he is and he doesn't need to impress you. If you don't actually want him, then spare yourselves both a lot of pain and just leave now.
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Which leads to guys making stuff up too.

teh-horace · Feb 26, 2006

if only i felt like typing at lenght right now
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Aristartle · Feb 26, 2006

Bahahaha.

Dump his freak-out ass. Tell him if he wants to talk about other girls, he's free to have all the time he wants to re-tell his stories with all his buddies, because you won't listen anymore.

sitareric · Feb 26, 2006

Aristartle said:

Bahahaha.

Dump his freak-out ass. Tell him if he wants to talk about other girls, he's free to have all the time he wants to re-tell his stories with all his buddies, because you won't listen anymore.
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Bulllshiiiit... You dont even know

Dump your freak out ass

spooner · Feb 26, 2006

This of course just increases girl's self-doubt.

Girls with low self-esteem are easy to lay, and shitty to date.

lynsey · Feb 26, 2006

no if you told him it bothered you and he still does it it's not normal. If you never complained or voiced your concern or hurt then maybe he just wants your attention and you need to show that its getting to you.

lynsey · Feb 26, 2006

wow then no offence but she was stupid for taking that offer if you think it's okay to talk about other girls you've had in that same bed in a sexual manner...just wow.

sitareric said:

This whole thing isnt even a quarter of why all this is happening...

Its ridiculous cause we went through so much... Its not like Me or her are at fault,

She always pulls the guilt trip on me. Most of the time when she gets really offended, its not my intention, im really not trying to provoke her..

and then when it does upset her, you shoudl see how far she goes.

One night she insulted me for hours literally, then eventually she said she "loves me" and "cares about me" and foolish as i was, i accepted back into my bed..

This has gone on for far too long...
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mamaboogie · Feb 27, 2006

spooner said:

This of course just increases girl's self-doubt.

Girls with low self-esteem are easy to lay, and shitty to date.
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*nods* it's all about his insecurities, playing on her insecurities. You two are better off without each other.

sitareric · Feb 27, 2006

lynsey said:

wow then no offence but she was stupid for taking that offer if you think it's okay to talk about other girls you've had in that same bed in a sexual manner...just wow.
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Blaha, you dont ven know... I lost my virginity with her...

Honestly if you knew the context of the way i express myself, about other women.. I'm sure you would view it as completely innocent..

I wasnt like describing in details.. LMFAO..

Seriously this is all ridiculous... CAiltin is never going to find the answer to her question.. if she doesnt look at the root cause...

but what to expect...

But basically yeah... Im totally done talking to her...

Maggie Sugar · Feb 27, 2006

Sounds like you two would do best to make a decision to maybe get into couples therapy. There is really no way people on this forum would know what you two are going through, and I'd hate for it to get worse, because of some idle advice.

Weird, I've never seen a complaint about a lover thread where the lover actually shows up.

Maybe you two ought to talk TO each other, without either one of you insulting the other ect.

Good luck.

sitareric · Feb 27, 2006

Its already over... Well nothings really OVER... but im distancing myself..

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