Hey she might, who knows, you put a fat sack of some g-13 in front of her and say take 1 hit of that, she'll let u smoke.
I think there were a lot of insightful responses above - particularly the bit about the possibility of her getting in legal trouble if it was found out that she lets you smoke... that's the world we live in. I don't think it's necessarily hypocritical to smoke as an adult but not allow your child to do the same. As a teenager, you're still developing your frontal lobe abilities... and for that reason I would condone any drug or alcohol use for my child. However, I wouldn't just say, "I'm gonna kick you out if I catch you." I'd give logical reasons why - because a teenager is smart enough and old enough to understand. That being said, realistically, teenagers rebel (as they should - that's also part of life) and a parent can't control everything when they're not around. However, a parent also shouldn't just give up and be overly permissive.
take her stuff and smoke it in her room, when i was younger my friend and i did that cause we found her mom's stash (and her dad was a cop so it was even better) and we smoked it in her room and then her mom just didn't mind her smoking cause it's never good to be a hippocrit
That could not be farther from the truth. If you have to be a hypocrite to keep your kids away from something that can be potentially dangerous if abused, than yes, you are being a good (I use the term "good" loosely) parent. She could be doing a much better job by quitting and setting an example, but it's a step better than letting your kid smoke weed. Most teens have no idea how marijuana should be used, and it is often abused. Until she becomes older and can make better decisions for herself, the mom needs to tell her what the best thing to do is.
Ya, you're mom is doing the right thing so calm down. If you can demonstrate responsibility then I guess she ease up a bit but either way there still have to be limits.