my bestest freinds 2 1/2 year natural dreads update

Aaaah I hope I can have that more laid back approcah. Im just so scared she's gonna be like me at that age [a very lost immature soul with little concience...TROUBLE]. But I guess I need to work on that. She's not me. I need to step out of my ego....its not easy. Bwah.
Ive been trying to establish open communication already so that it just grows stronger over the years. Every night we have our routine of talking about what made us happy and sad that day. She enjoys it and so do I. Hopefully thats the stepping stone to talking about boys and all that jazz later on.

 

and yeah SE...already in her preschool class the boys are fighting over who gets to marry her! lol. Luckily she has a wonderful teacher who has taught Amara not to put up with that crap and whenever the boys get possesive over wanting to play with her and stuff, Amara tells them that she's not going to play with any of them untill the fighting stops!

 

i told ya..shes a special girl..and your a very special mom
most moms are like..oh your sad? go sit in the corner till u stop being sad.
rubbish.
its good u have such an open dialogue so early, the trust will be undenyablwe andshe'll be able to talk to u bout anything (poor u though when she brings up the heavy subjects...loll but you'll handke em with grace and charm..u always do)

 

I'm gonna have a biiiiiiggggg stick bu the front door when my babies get old enough to start dating,,,lmao.. Nah, but I've been worrying about that as well, It's gonna be hard to see my little girls walk in the door with a guy, Damn,, Why do they have to grow up???

 

and your daughter is beautiful by the way,,, her boyfriend looks so sweet too

 

well ya dont gotta worry chevy, these days statisticly theyre firt loes just as likely to be a grl.. so they wont be walking in wth a guy, it'll be th girl ext dor u never suspect that u soud be watching out for

 

You will find that your young daughters will no longer be the same sweet little girls once they hit their teens. I thought I would never have to worry about my girls. They turned 14 and it was ON...somehow I became their worst enemy. Think all women will go through a little of that with their daughters..but it will pass.

 

My mom warned me that girls are a little reckless but grow out of it quickly, its the boys you have to watch out for because most don't get their shit together until they 30s.... so its like you have to parent them that whole time... I think its going to be hard for me when it comes time to let go of control... I am constantly on top of med dosing and doctors appointment, and echos.... and then to just let Yale take his own medicine and go to his own doctors appointments and stuff it going to be hard.... I've been hyper vigilant so far to keep the kid alive, watching him like a hawk for any signs of anything wrong... I hope I won't smother him when its time for him tolearn to take care of himself, but I'm sure it'll be the biggest issue I have... I'll be so glad when I know I can trust him with his health, all I have to worry about now is his heart, and the girls that are going to break it.