my boyfriend doesn't want to eat me out

Sorry but if you would dump someone because they wont perform a sexual act that you want means you dont love them, end of.

 

I dont know if I agree

If she sucks his dick he should return the favor
but this is more of a principal

In my eyes
the problem lies with him
because for the woman I loved I would do anything
obviously this is not the case

Even if he thinks its gross if you love someone you simply dont care

 

I think that in a situation where the couple truly loves each other, this is not grounds for termination of the relationship.

Would you dump a husband because they experienced ED? There are many things that you can do sexually. Ending a relationship because the sex isn't exactly the way you want it, that's selfish.

If it's not a serious, long-term, committed relationship...you are only dating and nothing more serious than that...I agree that you should end it. Dating is about trying things out, trying people on, seeing if you are compatible. If this is an issue and it's that big of a deal-breaker...I'd say dump him.

Try the next guy on and see how that fits.

 

If you love him, then maybe you should put aside your need and be happy making love with him. There are some cool sex toys that are supposed to be just like a tounge licking you. Maybe try that, before you dump him.


Tiffany

 

your pussy stinks, plain and simple

 

How would you know unless you are smelling it.

 

harsh, but possibly true in a very round about way....

maybe he is turned off by your smell and doesn't want to say it out of fear of hurting you....
Its possible that you don't have any issues down there, but your particular scent (maybe something to do with pheromones?) is unappealing to him....

 

^^^ thats probably it.. haha, some guys wont touch a girl if they smell funky. mybe you should talk to him about it and find out the real reason. just be like, seriously whats wrong with it. i suck you off, why cant you return the favor even one time?

 

Maybe he's secretly gay, and it's not YOU, but pussy in general.

 

lmao. thats great.. he'd rather have you suck his dick thinking your a dude
:smilielol5:

 

I like the smelly pussy idea.

 

Maybe he has OCD and doesn't like having his mouth and tongue being all close to the fecal bacteria-covered anus.

 

I just had this discussion with a female friend of mine having the same issue. I told her to stop going down on him... However, if you have a healthy relationship you need to talk about it... In her case it was intimidation, she was vastly more experienced than him and I think he was worried he wouldnt do it right.

I am curious about his concern for your own personal enjoyment overall... aside from just the oral sex. If he is unwilling to do something that he may not particularly enjoy to please you... what else is he unwilling to do for you?

(dump him)

 

Believe me, this is REALLY not an issue. I've had oral sex with several other guys before and they all loved it. The problem is not my pussy, the problem is he doesn't like to do it IN GENERAL. He told me that. Maybe he's really gay, who knows. Me not being satisfied is actually not a major problem here (there are other ways of achieving it, even though I like oral sex the most), as I've already said - the thing is, I can't stand the fact that he doesn't like my pussy! What kind of a man doesn't like a woman's pussy?! I don't think I can handle it anymore. Maybe some of you think this shouldn't be a deal-breaker, but since I've been very unhappy because of this for past few months, I guess I have no other option left.

 

gotta do what you gotta do
if you have been that unhappy then i believe you are making the right choice

 

Little Indian - -There is a huge variation in our individual sexual desires, and rarely do two individuals’ desire profiles exactly match. For a relationship to endure it’s essential that both partners fully accept all aspects of the other partner .... all aspects!

Note that I said accept, not share or even enjoy …. accept .... but acceptance and understanding are of paramount importance!

No one can enter a relationship thinking, “I’ll change my habits and then he/she will accept me” or even worse, “I’ll change him/her to be what I want” and expect that the relationship will flourish.

Why does he need to be normal? And what is normal? As human animals we are spread all over the bell-curve of sexuality; but what is normal? The exact center of the curve? Then most of us would be abnormal! One standard deviation on each side of center? Two standard deviations? I sure as hell don’t know what is normal and what isn’t.

I’d say that your BF is well within the range of normalcy as considered usual by most people …. but so what? Accept him as he is … and learn to do without receiving face …. or find a substitute …. or face the reality that if you cannot accept him as he is, then the only course of action is to break off the relationship before it gets too deep and one or both of you are hurt.



Good luck, have fun, and play safe!

 

Agreed 110%

I can't believe there are people throwing out the gay card. Believe it or not there are LOTS of guys who don't like to do that sort of things, just as there are girls who don't like to suck dick. That's just the way it goes. Different strokes for different folks. Who knows the reasons? Maybe he's had a bad experience with it in the past and has a stigma about it, maybe it's a pride issue (though I do find this reason laughable, but some guys are like that). I don't know. But there are dudes out there who don't like it and it's not such a rarity. Certainly those guys are in the minority, though.

 

Then either dump him, but say your reasons why and that might make him realize what he would lose if he doesnt lick you out. It depends if he hates eating pussy more than he loves you.
Or find a bit on the side to lick you out and stay with him, but thats a bit harsh.

 

You hit the nail right on the head. What kind of man doesn't like a woman's pussy? The wrong kind. It might be pussy in general he doesn't like, he might be gay, he might be OCD, he might just have some sort of weird Oedipus complex thing going on, it could be anything. But you can be sure of one thing. If he doesn't like your pussy, he is going to find something he does like at some point or another and leave you and your neglected pussy hanging out to dry.

 

but what's the point? who would want to be the beneficiary of a favor grudgingly given? doesn't sound very sexy or enjoyable. although, if she put a collar on him and cracked with a whip every now and then...