My boyfriend thinks Im fat

If that's your only reason for staying with the guy, then I think you should leave. This opinion has nothing to do with his response to your comments about feeling fat, it has everything to do with your response quoted above. If he's worth staying with, talk to him (instead of complaining to a bunch of random strangers online), work on really communicating, and see what it takes to make things better. But if you really are just staying because you don't know how to be single, that's a horrible way to live.

As for weight issues, I packed on 30-40 pounds within the first few months of dating my fiance. Some of that can probably be blamed on the pill, and most of that is because of his cooking. He has told me repeatedly that he likes me much better now, that I was too skinny before and he was afraid that he might roll over in the night and "break" me!

 

jesus i looked on here and thought thats me ,what you doing on there your the good looking one of the two any way and when we going out on the piss again, that was a good night

 

to my way of thinking...if you love someone..it doesnt matter what they look like. The only time I could imagine weight being an issue is if the person I love is having horrible health problems because of it...then I would care , and I would try to help them...but I wouldnt put them down because of it.
Your boyfriend needs to learn how to be a gentleman, and support and love his lady ALL the time..not just when she fits his ideal catagory .