My girlfriend and I do not have sex as often as i'd like.

I can't read your BIG BODY of text right now

Just keep her hot for you and do it like you mean it

 

the pill really depends on the girl. I knew someone where it really put her off and another it had no effect

But if you use lube it will almost never break and it will help you get out any rut. (vaginal sex and lube = almost never break like 99.9% never)

remember water base lube or you'll kill the condom and it gets messy.

but stress in all my experiences is worse then the pill. especially the slow grinding stress of a tough higher education.