This isn't exactly the same thing, but a similar situation... I lost my virginity to a one night stand, a complete stranger, I was blind drunk and very much out of it. I don't regret it,but at the same time I wasn't ready for it to happen. Now I am in a real relationship, with a man I love, and I'm still not ready for it, even though it's already happened I don't know if that makes sense. But what I'm trying to say is... her situation is probably like mine. She did it once, with a one night stand, she wasn't ready then but did it anyway... she's still not ready now but she hopes you'll wait for her, because you love her. That's the way my boyfriend treats our situation... he's waiting for me, because he loves me and because I'm worth waiting for. Give her time, and please don't pressure her!
I have the same problem, she said her mouth isn't big enough, but I know she's done it to at least 3 other guys. Makes me feel like crap. She will swallow though, and asks me to cum in her mouth after sex most of the time...
What ever the problem, it is never going to get more to your liking. After a year, you know the slant the relationship is taking and you don't like it. Even if you (or a sex counselor) talk her into doing the deed, obviously her heart is not going to be in it. So it won't be pleasant. Sucking cock, eating pussy, anal, whatever - all require an adventurous view of sex. Some people have their ideas fixed early and the symptom is "no adventurism!" She may love you to death, but it's the death of any adventurous sex. She tried it once, and mama was right! You can't fix that. Move on or limit your expectations. Time's a wastin'.
that's a long time. with my current bf, at first i wouldn't, because my last bf was my first for that and he broke my heart. but id say after a couple months i gave in because he was always trying to please me, and i could tell he cared. also i love cock. lol. but ya. i don't see why she isn't.