My girlfriend is now fat!

antithesis my hero!! I havnt seen u at the forums in a long time!!!

 

I did not want to ruin the moment.. from hear on out I will refer to her as big boned...

 

its better than fatass..but still hypocritical..
couldnt you just help her loose weight and such, or just leave her.. not stick around and harrass her by calling her names...

 

a depressed woman is an easily controlled woman. i know his type. i'm totally fed up with them, too. call her names, make her feel like shit, then you get to call her MORE names because he completely loss of any sort of self-respect has made her slide downward into an emotional hell. then, when everyone else tells you what an ass you are, BLAME THEM. throw in a little bit of self-serving vanity, personal plug for his so called looks, and some bullshit story of altruism, and you've got our buddy kermit.

 

someone had a huge problem with my post and I'd like to know why.

It's not ok to sit around and eat horrible and make excuses for being fat (not everyone is made to be skinny, nothing works, blah blah blah)

this girl USED to be thin. I don't know what happened. It's not my girlfriend! THis guy is a jerk for the way he put it, but why is he such a jerk for being concerned about a girl letting herself go? Like I said, being fat is unhealthy and it makes people feel like shit so why don't they get up off their asses and do something about it?

I said clearly that if something is going on that is out of her control and she's gaining weight, then he needs to back off and accept it. But if she's just a lazy slob, then she needs to work out, or be fat.

I don't feel sorry for overweight people. I'm not exactly skinny right now either. I gained 15 pounds in the last few months and when it became visable, I started adding a few work out routines during the day. Its good for me and healthy.

It's not ok to be fat. It's unhealthy. And if you think I'm a bitch for saying so I don't really care. I'll live a long and healthy life regardless. I'm not superficial. THis isn't about looks when it comes to my opinion. It's about health. And theres nothing healthy about being overweight. so don't twist my words into something I didn't say. I said exactly what I meant.

 

my words were also tied into racist shit. how boring.

get a life and learn to take people by just what they say. I don't have any hidden meanings in my posts. If she's happy being unhealthy then so be it.

 

Most of you hit it on the head the first time. This guy is a superficial, shallow, idiot. Real women are sexy. Women who overdo at the gym, have surgery, spend days on their hair, nails, tan, etc are ok. But not for me. I think they are gross.

Just be real.

 

you don't have to spend a bunch of time on yourself to be healthy.

a few minutes every few days is all it takes. I DO think this guy came across as superficial, but we don't know really if he's being an ass or if she's being lazy. That's the problem with the net sometimes. You don't get the whole story.

If we did, I could make an honest opinion. But I can't so I gave my opinion for every circumstance I could think of.

 

if yall read my posts you can see that im with headymoechick on this one, and the pig, who is probably a nice guy. its not my buisness if this dudes chick is gettin fat, or if people who took his post too seriously are gettin fat too and just bein defensive. but i love people, so i support the idea that people should maintain a healthy weight, which will reflect and encourage a healthy mind. i personally like to be active and go places and do things. i would personally hate it if i had to pause every 5 steps i took to have my woman catch up. or not be able to go to the beach cus my woman would not feel comfortable going.
i think the kid here is noticing a trend with his partners health, he sees the same thing in more than half of all other women, and he's tryin to get to the bottom of it so that he can help his partner be healthy, before she becomes the 500lb beast on jerry springer show.
i have personally starved in my life time, and it wasnt by choice. food is something used to sustain life. it is enjoyable, but should not be used to comfort yourself, that is wasteful and selfish and not a healthy psycological decision. there are alot of things available to eat today that are really bad for you, a person has to decide to not eat them, because they love the rest of thier body more than thier tastebuds.

 

Agreed, Dancer. I had said earlier that I didn't believe this guy/girl/whatever because its so damn easy to fool folks on the net w/o having to stare them in the face. Kinda surprise he/she/they posted again *raised eyebrow*

And some persons (too cowardly to say my name instead just calling me "someone" ha!) you can fool a lot so they post, I disagree and then they post three times their indignation about what I said but really don't say anything any different from the first time they posted.

NE way... *g* Last post here for me here (cause I got a bus to paint) and a nod in Zoomie's direction- Just be real. No matter what size, shape, color, hobbies you have. If folks have hang-ups about this matter or that, let 'em stay hung up cause it really isn't that serious esp in cyberworld were the word "real" should have an astrisk behind it.
As long as you are happy fuck the rest.

TTFN

 

DO NOT presume to tell me how I should feel about MY body. Yeah, I'm fat. But y'know what, I'm happy with my life. There are a lot of worse things that could happen to me than being somewhat overweight.

I DO NOT feel like shit about my body. I do not feel like I have lower energy than people who weigh less. Please for the love of anything, don't make assumptions about people who are overweight - some of us are on medication, have metabolic conditions, and wide bone structures under the weight that prevent us from ever looking "thin" (fit yes, thin no)

I don't actually see the problem with being somewhat overweight if you're in good cardiovascular health and have good muscle strength, but that's just my opinion. Which I am entitled to, just as you are... just don't make assumptions about how people feel or why they are the way they are based on their weight, please.

 

Just curious...and please don't yell at me, but...

Why are you so caught up with the way your bodies look? Why are you all so sensitive about the issue?

It's an honest question.

I don't give a flying rat's ass about how my body looks, as long as I feel good. That's all that matters to me.

 

finaly someone who makes me laugh and understands. and thank you WayfaringStranger

here's lookin at you kid!

Like I sit around a beat my woman. good one good one!



BTW. Why is everyone so concerned about their bodies?

 

I think it's more appropriate to say being morbidly obese makes you feel like shit. Being ten to thirty lbs overweight does not make you feel shitty.

I think people were offended because he accused "all girls" of "getting fat." His tone was ANGRY towards his girlfriend. I would be more worried if she started neglecting her cleanliness and showed NO interest in sexuality and exercising... Does she still like to go on hikes? Does she like to take strolls? Maybe get her a book on yoga so she can get a little more flexible for bed.

 

Honey, no, you're not! Not for a minute would I call you fat.

 

you post that initial post and then have the balls to ask this? i haven't read all the replies and i don't care to. you are a pig. there is no excuse for that attitude. i hope she sits on you and squashes every bone in your waste of air space body. pah.

 

I have gained 30-35 lbs in ONE year

I had 3 kids and stayed skinny (size 3) and after the last one, an emergency c-section, and no longer working a very physical job I gained weight

Everybody that loved me before, loves me now. Everybody that thought I was sexy before, thinks I'm MORE sexy now. Its one thing to see someone and say " that person is bigger than I prefer ". Its another and much more fucked up thing to say " I have loved you, been with you for years, but you have gained weight and I am willing to ignore the rest and focus on your weight. I don't like it. You must go"

I mean I would even attempt to see your point if she had gained 100 or 150 lbs. You're whining about 40 lbs? That's some bitch shit.

 

no, he's not a nice fucking person. nice people don't say shit like

"WTF girls why do you all get fat?
get off of your bon bon ass and walk?


you eat to much and your lazy and I hate when you rip on me for not having enough money!"

he's a pig and a prick. if i was his girlfriend and had to listen to this shit, i'd probably eat myself into silence, too.

 

I was just a skinny lad
never knew no good from bad
but i knew life before I left my nursury
left alone with big fat fanny
she was such a naughty nanny
big big woman
you made a bad boy outta me

whoa wont you take me home tonight
ohhh down beside that red firelight
oh you gonna let it all hang out
fat bottom girls you make the rockin world go round!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

I LOVE A WOMAN WITH A FEW EXTRA POUNDS AND SOME GENEROUS CURVES! DONT WORRY LADIES! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

SIze 3 is not fat, Ill take anything up to a 5.

People, being fat is a fucking defect.. it reflects laziness, motherfucking you dont get fat by working out and doing shit. You get fat by sitting on your fat ass stuffin your face, if you want people to stop making fun of you, then loose some fucking weight, IF IT DOESNT BOTHER YOU then shit, keep on eating and get more fat.